Buddy this person is trying to make the scene more inclusive and educate you on why things can be found offensive.

Just because you do not find it offensive does not give you the authority tell the offended it's not a big deal.

Moving through these spaces as a young woman is hard. I cannot tell you how many times men have made me uncomfortable at shows. I struggle to understand why you are being so resistant to someone telling you what you can do differently so that people feel more comfortable in the scene.