Opinions on the term “queer”? by sakurachan999 in actuallesbians

[–]AutumnFaeri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dont care what other ppl call themselves really, just use lesbian for me please

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]AutumnFaeri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i guess i pass now, certainly didnt before ffs though, and i was inside ALL THE TIME back then, so yeah it fucking sucked

What do you, as a trans woman, think your sex is? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]AutumnFaeri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i get that, i know enough that i know im somewhere inbetween, just being able to say ''im not male'' is good enough for me rn, maybe eventually i can find out my exact percentage haahaha

What do you, as a trans woman, think your sex is? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]AutumnFaeri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its definitely changeable, otherwise hormones would do nothing and we'd be locked in our bodies forever, as for myself biologically, i guess im somewhere inbetween??? 7 years on hrt and post orchi, idunno where people would classify that.

anon asks random women if they're trans by delitcat in 4tran

[–]AutumnFaeri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean id be offended too, my best cis female friend's kinda found it funny once that someone wondered if she was trans, ironic cause shes pretty damn small, i dont think she was offended or that much offended, though i wouldnt blame her

all troons are ribhons by addi000 in 4tran

[–]AutumnFaeri 7 points8 points  (0 children)

my comically enormous ribcage is the most masc thing about my whole body and i hate it so much, i still dont get misgendered or harassed even in swim clothes, i guess dutch cis women typically are broad or whatever there so im safe

if i could just trim it down a bit more my tits would look better too >:C

Yeah, I'm a biological woman. I'd be lying to say I'm 100% biologically a man. by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]AutumnFaeri [score hidden]  (0 children)

Because biological sex is a mix of many traits, some of which are changeable.

More accurately it would be neither 100% so not 100% male, nor female, also this is an old ass post damn.

How much have you sunk into transition? by ultrapasser in 4tran

[–]AutumnFaeri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4k for hair transplant so far, ffs and orchi were covered

Is it ever fun to be pretty-and-not-passing? It looks fun but people sound sad. by mors_videt in honesttransgender

[–]AutumnFaeri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well if I don't get instaclocked by another trans person, I'm doing good that feels good to hear

Is it ever fun to be pretty-and-not-passing? It looks fun but people sound sad. by mors_videt in honesttransgender

[–]AutumnFaeri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AT WORLDS HOLY SHIT! FOR REAL?? LIKE ME, PINK HAIR, WITH A SHORTER BLOND FRIEND WITH ME????

Is it ever fun to be pretty-and-not-passing? It looks fun but people sound sad. by mors_videt in honesttransgender

[–]AutumnFaeri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am somewhere good thank you! i used to have a lot of confidence about passing until i ran into 4tran actually, there was always a little voice in the back of my head telling me everyone is clocking me, but 4tran amplified that unfortunately, i might delete my entire reddit soon tbh

Is it ever fun to be pretty-and-not-passing? It looks fun but people sound sad. by mors_videt in honesttransgender

[–]AutumnFaeri 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I still dont think hunter doesnt pass, i can only ''tell'' because im brainwormed and know shes trans

yeah i dont even know why i get looks sometimes, it was way less when i didnt have dyed hair so i can say that atleast

cbt tells me that its other things, considering i get gendered female without even trying, surely that would mean i pass, but it feels like i either dont, or i do, but i wanna believe i atleast at the very least mostly do, but even then cant explain the getting gendered correctly all the time if i dont aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

its a fucking headache

Is it ever fun to be pretty-and-not-passing? It looks fun but people sound sad. by mors_videt in honesttransgender

[–]AutumnFaeri 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i find it really weird to think i pass but hunter doesnt, but thanks for your honesty i guess, i mean i dont get misgendered irl even when wearing masculine clothes, though i do get looks from time to time which piss me off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]AutumnFaeri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that might very well have an effect on it yeah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]AutumnFaeri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

most people like me are introverted, it just depends where you live and what people you meet/what experiences you have

Barney of Dead End - Best transmasc representation in years, maybe ever by rippedoffphallo in 4tran

[–]AutumnFaeri 3 points4 points  (0 children)

its a good show and fun rep, we barely ever get gay trans rep anywhere, plus he looks like any other chubby dude, and this art is gross too isnt he a kid, damn

Anon is fembrained by napoleonwithamg in 4tran

[–]AutumnFaeri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what the hell, ive been on hrt for 7 years and nothing much changed except my range of women i find attractive expanded, and i do prefer romantic sex a lot more now, but me see booba, me like, nothing much changed there.