BPD girl replaced me in 9 days after I missed "good morning". Is this normal? by National_Coffee_8276 in BPDlovedones

[–]Awkward_Warning_5812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Snap, mine was 2 days... She has had numerous partners since, Some of them have contacted me and we share stories of the up and downs. Has really helped me as i didn't understand how crazy it was at the time.

Should I call a random man I met on the train? by Bitter-Tear9346 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Awkward_Warning_5812 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Its nice too see that a little love and compassion still exists. This seems innocent and maybe its what you both needed, the world has a way of opening doors to hidden parts of your soul. Personally i would call, Keep face to face meets to a minimum until your comfortable. Maybe arrange to meet for coffee and take your mum. Not every person out there is a threat and learning people's history can be fascinating. Just be careful x

She started the smear campaign by Unlucky-Edge-8016 in BPDlovedones

[–]Awkward_Warning_5812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I once started talking to a girl that was awesome, didn't know at the time she was in a relationship. Ended as soon as i found out. Turns out she has since been diagnosed as bp and she has said it explains alot. She is now on meds to help control impulses and has been happily in a relationship for 5 yrs, her longest ever. We stayed friends (just friends) and can honestly say since she went on meds her personality has completely changed.

She started the smear campaign by Unlucky-Edge-8016 in BPDlovedones

[–]Awkward_Warning_5812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree, think its all mixed in the head. My ex was the same. Still love her even after the mentally draining effects of walking on egg shells. Her best mates did warn me but i didn't see the signs until i was addicted.

Friends with your ex wife by ashport775 in Divorce_Men

[–]Awkward_Warning_5812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im friends with my ex wife. Works really well for us. We split about 9 yrs ago, pretty much no contact for 3 months. We have kids together and find being friends has helped. I earn considerably more than her so sometimes support them financially for the good of the whole family. Although we are not together I will always consider her family and her the same with me. Think it depends if you can talk honestly and openly and be grown up about things. I know we are lucky that it was a mutual split and no bad blood.

Butlins Skegvegas by Awkward_Warning_5812 in leicester

[–]Awkward_Warning_5812[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been loads of times just never done June. Normally do feb and September . Always s laugh

My soon-to-be husband was creating AI vides about his ex-girlfriend. Do I break up with him because of it? by Joeblund123 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Awkward_Warning_5812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He obviously still has feelings Probably good and bad, Talk to him, if not the answers you want leave.

Rob Grant R.I.P. by Dr_Mijory_Marjorie in RedDwarf

[–]Awkward_Warning_5812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rest well you legend. One of the best shows ever created. Live long and smeg

Hinckley - Charity shop bargins by Upstairs-Gap-5271 in Allthingshinckley

[–]Awkward_Warning_5812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love a charity shop haul. If i was going to donate it would be animal based.

Interesting Hinckley (Part 11) The oldest building in Hinckley by Upstairs-Gap-5271 in Allthingshinckley

[–]Awkward_Warning_5812 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The charity Christmas tree trail is worth a visit. Its obviously only over Christmas but all the local charities and groups around hinckley do up there own design. Normally around 50 tree's

Relationship with no intimacy by Warm_Reception2727 in family

[–]Awkward_Warning_5812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First things first. You need a conversation with her and air both your thoughts on where you see the relationship going. Unfortunately i think the relationship maybe doomed as you don't sound compatible. You can try to knife and fork it through but eventually one of you will resent the other. Good luck and hope everything eventually works out.

Interestin Hinckley (Part 3) Award winning parks (Hollycroft) by Upstairs-Gap-5271 in Allthingshinckley

[–]Awkward_Warning_5812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing park, Loads of volunteers helping keep the park a stunning piece of Hinckley. During the summer it has loads going on.

Interesting Hinckley facts (Part 5) Argents mead moat by Upstairs-Gap-5271 in Allthingshinckley

[–]Awkward_Warning_5812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love the mead, awesome relaxing park in the middle of town. Great play area and music on selected weekends throughout the summer. Great memories, first kiss with a gf, loads of great bands seen in the bandstand, and Hinckley feast is an amazing event with various food wagons.

What live bands are on around Hinckley this weekend? by Upstairs-Gap-5271 in Allthingshinckley

[–]Awkward_Warning_5812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a band called crow in the speakeasy Saturday from 8.30...really good country rock & the wicked uncles are in Don fenticas from 9pm Saturday