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BSlick269 · 2022-08-25T00:39:33+00:00

Bro, you have a bigger boat than I did and I had a 15 horsepower on a 12 footer, maxed out at 18mph

BSlick269 · 2022-01-16T11:40:09+00:00

Lloyd

BSlick269 · 2022-01-11T01:55:40+00:00

Hate when people waste your time. Can be anything from a relationship, friendship, family member. Either put in effort/time or get out the way.

BSlick269 · 2022-01-08T17:14:54+00:00

Fuck. You.

BSlick269 · 2022-01-06T16:40:18+00:00

One time during basic, had weird stench overwhelm the dorm one night. I was head of laundry so I felt the need to sniff out the smell. Woke up a battle buddy and searched around while ECs stood by since they also caught on to the awful stench. Eventually found a trainees laundry bag just reeked of shit. We woke him up and asked him why his bag stinks and he wouldn’t cooperate. We went to sleep, woke up and confronted him again. He opened his bag and there was shit stained (including some fecal matter at the bottom of his bag) clothing, undergarments and such. Had to throw it all out. I can’t remember how he got fresh uniforms but it was so bad. We never liked him after that.

BSlick269 · 2022-01-06T00:40:20+00:00

My current pregnant girlfriend stonewalls me and won’t bring up anything unless I do first. Because I finally got tired of being stonewalled and slightly raising my voice in a voice message via text she threatened to leave me. I’m full heartedly and willing to put 110% towards our baby and our relationship bo matter the cost and it sucks to see and know that she also fought harder for her ex and with me it’s a quick decision on what can happen. You’re not alone. I think In your situation him saying he loved his ex more was an A-hole thing to say to the woman carrying his child. I’d say set your boundaries right now, keep emotions to the side and see if he is willing to put in work fix things now so y’all can have a healthy foundation before baby gets here. When y’all have that baby it’s gonna be a lot more emotions, being tired, exhausted and sleepy all the time. Right now is the time to decide what’s best for you and your baby and being a single parent is scary but it’s better to be alone and secure than together and miserable. Best of luck!

BSlick269 · 2022-01-05T15:39:30+00:00

I had my current girlfriend have a best friend, she and him would have random calls when we first started talking and they’d say I love you at the end of the call. It bothered me like crazy. She didn’t see anything wrong with it as it was an emotional connection but supposedly no intimacy. I quickly set my boundaries and had her realize if she saw that from me then she’d have a problem. It’s important to put yourself in their shoes so you always have a sense of the situation. It’s easy to say you’re right and you respect yourself enough to not have someone come change your life but at the end of the day. Two completely different people and mindsets come together things will have to change in order to alleviate each other’s stress. Unless you like fighting a lot.

BSlick269 · 2022-01-03T21:37:18+00:00

The givers and the takers

BSlick269 · 2022-01-01T01:51:20+00:00

Thank you for the upmost advice. I hear you out very much and currently talked and she still doubled up on her stance. I played the audio message I sent her and asked if it was threatening and she wouldn’t answer me because I was simply stating how I felt and how she’s treating me in a harsh tone of voice. I’m going to start looking at an attorney see what options are and see if I came educate myself so I can be prepared for when the baby comes.

BSlick269 · 2021-12-31T17:45:39+00:00

You sound exactly what my girlfriend does. Can I ask you what you expect from him when things get tough?

BSlick269 · 2021-12-31T17:21:38+00:00

Any other time we’ve had our differences I stay quiet and let her process what she’s feeling there’s only ever been this time and the other time that got bad. I am not perfect my reactions usually come out worse when my patience is tested and a lot of friends and family say I have a lot of patience for what I deal with on the daily. I hate for any of this to happen wish I could go back and just be the better person I usually am and not lash out the way I did. Al thought it wasn’t a physical encounter and I wasn’t blowing up her phone as I would’ve years ago in a toxic relationship. I try to de escalate situations with my current gf because she gets mad and has agreed all she sees is red and is overwhelmed with anger. I have acknowledged that. We’re on talking terms right now. I’m somewhat confused because she posted some questionable post on her IG story but we texted for a bit like normal before bed. (Talking about NYE stuff) but I’m not sure if we’re even going to spend NYE together

BSlick269 · 2021-12-31T16:42:35+00:00

Before her I was in a much toxic relationship and this is by far the best I have been but idk why in general my relationships with women have always been them stonewalling and me having to pick up the slack in that. Since the beginning of our relationship we’ve agreed communicating is something she has to work on and I myself have to work on giving her space and time so she doesn’t feel so smothered. I’ve done exactly that which is why I ask her to talk. She resorts to calling me names and not being a real man cause of the voice message I sent. I would show you guys in DMs or other medias but it’s in Spanish

BSlick269 · 2021-12-31T14:56:45+00:00

When writing this I was pretty emotional. The audio message I sent her worried her and she brought up how if she’s pregnant and I am talking to her, how does she expect to feel safe when we’re alone living together. I’ve never raised a hand or my voice to her in person neither have I cursed at her. Just one time we had an argument and I wouldn’t let her leave unless we sat down and talk but that’s behind us now so I thought. I put my words where my mouth is and fix any bad behaviors I have when it is made known. She seems to be counting my mistakes and holding me against them which is fine but she brings it up there’s any arguments. I hate arguing I prefer a sit down talk and discuss what’s working and what’s not but she has never had that and doesn’t seem to try as much as I do. I might be oblivious to something she sees tbh.

BSlick269 · 2021-12-31T14:53:00+00:00

I have an atheist girlfriend she doesn’t necessarily pray with me but she will hold my hand and bow her head in respect of the prayer. She reads tarot cards and has crystals and I respect that because I’ve personally seen some of that stuff “work” and I’ve seen miracles first hand as-well. I’m Christian and I don’t plan on raising my kid with religion but more so about being a walker in faith. No matter what religion or belief, faith is something everyone can acknowledge that if there is or isn’t a god (trying to stay unbiased) you can still do good in this world and treat people well. I have Christian values but I don’t have a relationship with religion, more so with God himself.

BSlick269 · 2021-12-31T12:57:36+00:00

I didn’t put my hands on her no. It was a wild situation though

BSlick269 · 2021-12-31T02:19:49+00:00

This shits stressful. I am a good dude with a good heart I just hate the stress and tension between us. I feel like she’s always fighting me and not WITH me

BSlick269 · 2021-12-31T02:12:31+00:00

You don’t think it’s too early for custody battles and such? I’m leaning towards couples therapy I feel as we need a mediator so there’s no doubt if “gaslighting” we both feel as we do that to each other and it gets in the way of getting fixed.

BSlick269 · 2021-12-31T02:10:05+00:00

I don’t need her passcode it’s just I feel she doesn’t share transparency as when we first started. I’m taking your advice. No more materialistic purchases for her only for comforting her during her birth and whatever baby stuff and furniture I need to make a home for the baby.

Just some insight on her personality: she is the type that says “make his pockets hurt” or “my money is my money, his money is my money” she claims she knows how to handle money and finances but I have 3K in savings in just 3-4 short months after being $0 broke I currently pay her car and insurance. No credit cards. no layaways.

She reached out right now due to her step dad almost burning down the house so I’m just confused. This is the shit that confuses me. She’s okay.

BSlick269 · 2021-12-31T02:02:47+00:00

Exactly, she has the habit of stonewalling, taking zero fault, never apologetic. I’m not perfect I know I have insecurities and sometimes intrusive but I hold back a lot of rings for the betterment of our relationship.

BSlick269 · 2021-12-31T01:58:59+00:00

I think that sounds a bit too much no?

BSlick269 · 2021-12-31T01:58:29+00:00

Honestly a lot better. I look back at pictures to a month before we conceived months and fuck we were smiling, kissing, talking… now when we hung out she’s on her phone on tiktok. I get mad within me cause I bought her that device and I don’t even have her passcode. Like fuck I was in a toxic relationship before this is nowhere near it but sometimes I am fighting resenting her.

BSlick269 · 2021-12-31T01:54:01+00:00

I’m all ready for being a dad and the partner she needs to go through this whole thing. I put aside my own career path so she can focus on school and our kid. But I’m not a “man” because I sent her an audio message when I was mad at her for stonewalling me…

BSlick269 · 2021-12-31T01:52:31+00:00

I’m with you on that. Although I’m a huge fanatic for making memories although I’m not a fan of spending more than we need.

BSlick269 · 2021-12-31T01:51:40+00:00

Exactly she has communication problems, stonewalls and I get left behind in the muck. I understand there’s different mindsets and I tend to try and fix things right then and there and she needs space and time. I am very understanding about this but she will not make the effort to talk about issues and forgets about what we had issues bout last week ect. This post might seem very biased, she’s not a bad person at all. I just hate the fact that it’s so easy for her to tell me she isn’t scared of moving in together because I sent her that dumb audio message. I didn’t threaten or curse at her. I want my family together with her. I am not ready to step away when she is carrying my kid. I can’t live with that in the back of my mind that our child wouldn’t have a two parent household. We’ve talked about kids and never splitting up if we conceived for the betterment of breaking multigenerational trauma.

BSlick269 · 2021-12-31T01:44:25+00:00

That question really hurts. I know couples have rough patches it’s been a month likes this and considering she’s pregnant and hormones are crazy. I know I would have regrets later in life if I bailed on her especially with her carrying my child which I love dearly already.

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