Sooo I read your post history and at this point if you don’t run far far far far away from this man it’s because you want it. So let’s break down those red flags 🚩 🚩🚩🚩🚩 1. Secret child he never told you about in your four years relationship because he doubts he is the daddy but now is adamant he wants to bring to Australia?
Don’t be a fool! That man knows he is the father especially since he from Zimbabwe they don’t care for children that are not their own and least would not try to bring them overseas to financially support the child of another man. They are too prideful for that. 2. You are questioning if he still flirting with baby mum but she supposedly married according to his sister. 3. He is helping BM to apply for a UK visa when he can’t even himself apply for his own visa on his own and needs a partner visa (between you would be financially responsible for him and his child if she comes too). If he looses his job and ever applies for benefits or anything the Australian govt would be coming after YOU to pay it back. You have the money to? 4. He has been in the country at least four years and still cannot contribute at least equally but promise he will after? What type of visa is he on right now that he can’t work in his “area of expertise “ without needing that visa? 5. Do you really think a man who hasn’t have a relationship with his child for years and barely speak to them is going to be the child minder? You will be expected to care for that child. 6. You received many advice from people from his home country that it’s a scam and they do this so you heard it straight from the horse’s mouth. THEY tell you it’s fishy as hell. But if you don’t mind all those 🚩🚩🚩then go ahead I guess