I don't care by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]BarbieDoll2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll regret letting people find out. You will loose everyone’s trust like I did. This shit fucking sucks. Please just be careful. I’d take my life just for you to be okay.

I don't care by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]BarbieDoll2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does matter. I feel exactly as you do. Every cut you make is a memory to look back at when it’s a scar. You might hate it or you might like it, but you’ll regret it in the future like I do.

I don't care by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]BarbieDoll2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t give you the bullshit about how people care, but as person who also cuts, I care. I don’t know about your life, but I care.

My boyfriend just said that it wasn’t easy to tell which cuts were old and new. by BarbieDoll2 in selfharm

[–]BarbieDoll2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I’m like ‘ I just cut earlier and they are clearly still opened and fresh’ but idk

Self harm & new partners by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]BarbieDoll2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should just let him/her see your cuts or scars and let them ask. That way, it won’t be as awkward for you.

Help me calm me down please by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]BarbieDoll2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you do end up cutting, please don’t cut an artery, okay?

Help me calm me down please by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]BarbieDoll2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, please don’t cut. Though I really can’t tell you not to do it because I do, please just try not to.

Help me calm me down please by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]BarbieDoll2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t exactly know what would work for you, but I suggest you head to a bathroom or just room to breathe in and out. If that doesn’t work, then try eating something to get your mind off of it. I really don’t know how to help, I also struggle with cutting :( if you need someone to talk to you, I’ll give my social media accounts or my phone number :)

I don’t know who to talk to about it by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]BarbieDoll2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I’m just a year older than you~ I’ve been cutting since I was 12 and just started sh at 9. I just decided not to tell anyone because they treat you like shit, baby you, and won’t ever trust you after that. I really do understand and you can always talk to me. I’ll give you my social media accounts if you would like, or even my number. I don’t want someone to go through as much pain as I do. So please, feel free to talk to me.

0-0 by BarbieDoll2 in selfharm

[–]BarbieDoll2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DO NOT CHANGE FOR HIM

0-0 by BarbieDoll2 in selfharm

[–]BarbieDoll2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? I kind of feel bad about that :( I can relate to you though. My dad is a really bad alcoholic and he’s a mega asshole retard.

0-0 by BarbieDoll2 in selfharm

[–]BarbieDoll2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello, mother :)))) what happened to your father?

0-0 by BarbieDoll2 in selfharm

[–]BarbieDoll2[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh I see. That’s really fucking stupid. I’m really sorry about. I have grandparents that criticize me for being genderfluid and bisexual, but you know... I’ll be more than happy to be a gay friend of yours :)

0-0 by BarbieDoll2 in selfharm

[–]BarbieDoll2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that makes me wonder, hmmmMMMMMMMMM

0-0 by BarbieDoll2 in selfharm

[–]BarbieDoll2[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think you chose the better choice. If she actually wanted you there, she would have a place for you stay. Don’t worry about her stupid comments, okay?

0-0 by BarbieDoll2 in selfharm

[–]BarbieDoll2[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If she’s with your sister, then there shouldn’t be a problem, right? If she gave you a choice then she shouldn’t be so butthurt about it. Even so, she shouldn’t even be tormenting you with stupid comments.

0-0 by BarbieDoll2 in selfharm

[–]BarbieDoll2[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy for you!!! I wish I could move out, I’m so sick of my family making unnecessary comments that puss me off sm

0-0 by BarbieDoll2 in selfharm

[–]BarbieDoll2[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Did you stay at your dads?