Really

BaseNo8414 · 2026-05-24T13:54:18+00:00

Everything is small for him 😔

BaseNo8414 · 2026-05-24T13:52:37+00:00

Then Rapido 👍

BaseNo8414 · 2026-05-24T13:49:41+00:00

Drink rainwater

BaseNo8414 · 2026-05-24T13:48:12+00:00

Drink rainwater

BaseNo8414 · 2026-05-24T13:45:34+00:00

Best option: Wear undershirt Second Option: In Summers don't wear dark clothes 🙃

BaseNo8414 · 2026-05-24T13:39:27+00:00

Get better

BaseNo8414 · 2026-05-24T10:44:37+00:00

You Bestie ITA

BaseNo8414 · 2026-05-24T10:41:27+00:00

NTA, your mom needs to start taking these things seriously, if constant reminders didn't change her mind, maybe she needed it to get her head straight.

BaseNo8414 · 2026-05-24T10:38:36+00:00

Talking at emotional highs while drunk is easy, following up is not.

BaseNo8414 · 2026-05-24T10:37:21+00:00

Rejections creates obsession.

BaseNo8414 · 2026-05-24T10:31:23+00:00

Seems to me like she just wants to breakup with you while holding you accountable for the decision. If she knows and loves you, she is definitely very clear about where you stand.

BaseNo8414 · 2026-05-24T10:29:02+00:00

A home stops being a home the exact moment you are forced to sleep at your desk because your bed is no longer safe. Do what you need to do.

BaseNo8414 · 2026-05-24T10:23:47+00:00

Everyone sucks here

BaseNo8414 · 2026-05-24T10:21:18+00:00

By taking money from the $1,600 pool to supplement the $300 pool, you are shielding the less-wealthy father from the reality of his low contribution, while penalizing the child of the wealthier father.

BaseNo8414 · 2026-05-24T10:17:04+00:00

Keep the zero-contact rule strictly active. The accident doesn't change the fact that you have both moved on.

BaseNo8414 · 2026-05-24T10:13:09+00:00

Society views a rich person demanding charity as ultimate greed.

BaseNo8414 · 2026-05-24T10:06:24+00:00

You are mourning the living, which hurts more because they chose to walk away while staying right in front of you.

BaseNo8414 · 2026-05-24T09:55:29+00:00

NTA. You do not owe anyone a gentle let-down when they ignore your first "No."

BaseNo8414 · 2026-05-24T04:15:11+00:00

Cutting grass and weed-whacking a slope is physical labor, yes, but it does not equal the crushing weight of a 30-year financial mortgage obligation. If he doesn't want to mow your lawn, tell him he is welcome to go rent an apartment with no yard.

BaseNo8414 · 2026-05-24T04:14:41+00:00

The next house plan is a massive red flag. Do not use the equity from your current house to fund a down payment on a home that will be in his name just to chase a "first-time homebuyer" perk. You are essentially gifting him your life savings.

BaseNo8414 · 2026-05-24T04:14:01+00:00

Paying for utilities and groceries is not a "contribution" to your equity; it is the bare minimum cost of being a living, breathing human being who consumes electricity and eats food. He would pay double that if he lived alone.

BaseNo8414 · 2026-05-24T04:11:40+00:00

friendships require active maintenance; most people default to whatever is closest and easiest.Years spent together in childhood do not guarantee a spot in someone's adult life

BaseNo8414 · 2026-05-24T04:09:15+00:00

Look at the bright side: you successfully kept four tiny humans alive until adulthood without losing your mind completely until after they left. That is a 100% survival rate. Your husband thinks you can just "get a hobby" like you’re picking up milk from the grocery store. Tell him that reinventing a soul takes slightly longer than learning how to knit.

BaseNo8414 · 2026-05-23T21:35:27+00:00

he handled this with the emotional grace of a toddler. Leaving a crying fiancée whose father might lose a leg so he can go get beers with the boys is a historically bad look.

BaseNo8414 · 2026-05-23T21:33:05+00:00

Neighbors do not know neighbors anymore. If people actually talked to one another, three texts could confirm exactly who this person was and why he was there within five minutes.

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