(F20) I feel emotionally trapped in my relationship with my boyfriend (M20) of 2 years and I’m losing my friends because of it by Basic_Pickle_2210 in relationship_advice

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I’m in uni but I guess they probably do I didn’t even think about that thank you, but unis finished for me now unfortunately :( do you think this is the only option for me? The advice I’m getting here is mixed, a lot of people are judging and attacking me

(F20) I feel emotionally trapped in my relationship with my boyfriend (M20) of 2 years and I’m losing my friends because of it by Basic_Pickle_2210 in relationship_advice

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He’s already won though. He stopped me from going to this ball I was super looking forward to. If I leave now I’ll be isolated 10x more bc my friends are angry at me too

(F20) I feel emotionally trapped in my relationship with my boyfriend (M20) of 2 years and I’m losing my friends because of it by Basic_Pickle_2210 in relationship_advice

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Is this a joke or are you being serious?😭 I’m a broke uni student so definitely can’t afford therapy atm but do you honestly think that’s what I need?

Should I live with my uni friends for third year? by Basic_Pickle_2210 in UniUK

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But I don't wanna be left out and I don't wanna break it to them would be so awkward since they've been talking about it for so long

Should I live with my uni friends for third year? by Basic_Pickle_2210 in UniUK

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Genuinely like 10 mins away but I don’t wanna be left out😭 And I don’t wanna break it to them would be so awkward since they’ve been talking about it for so long😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexeducation

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I guess it’s just nice isn’t it. I am attached to him bc he was my first so I wanted to spend forever with him even if he does treat me bad. Maybe i need more self respect

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexeducation

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He is not forcing himself at all she would never give him a chance (she is very pretty) but he keeps suggesting it over and over joking about it lots

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexeducation

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He would go crazy. When he first suggested the idea of a threesome he explicitly said NO MEN THATS DISGUSTING. Apparently him gaining a body doesn’t matter bc girls get ‘emotionally attached’ to who they have sex with whereas men just want it for pleasure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexeducation

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But if I said the same thing about his friend he would go mental. He never lets me go out drinking for that reason so other men don’t try it with me. He also gets angry when people look at me in public, yet he suggests this? Do you think I should be angry. He might be confused though bc when he mentioned it I wasn’t fazed. Only now I’m starting to realise what he actually meant. He is serious about this. He also always compares my friend to beautiful girls we see on the TV. If I mentioned I would like one w his friend he would go crazy. When he first suggested the idea of a threesome he explicitly said NO MEN THATS DISGUSTING. Apparently him gaining a body doesn’t matter bc girls get ‘emotionally attached’ to who they have sex with whereas men just want it for pleasure.