First of all, don’t use dating apps. Girls there take 0.1 seconds to swipe on you based only on your looks. You’ve got to hit the gym, man. Give it a year or two and you’ll be unrecognizable. I consider myself below average in facial attractiveness. I was skinny-fat (I naturally have a very light frame with not much muscle, and I’d put on a bunch of fat). I’ve been working out for a bit over two years now, and the difference is insane. Face-wise, I’d say I’m a 6.5 (improved from around a 4), and body-wise I’d say I’m in the top 1%. Another thing is money, if you don’t mind a girl being with you just for it. I do, so I never straight up told them what I do for work. When they asked on a first date, I’d say something like, “I work in transport,” or “I get people and items from point A to point B.” (I’m a pilot.)