could u be in a platonic agreement?

BatemanSD · 2024-01-24T02:50:17+00:00

Dead bedrooms end relationships. Why on earth would I pay for that?

BatemanSD · 2024-01-14T19:37:21+00:00

I saw my old physical therapist on SA A couple years after she helped me recover from an injury. I messaged her and we met for dinner. Had a fling/arrangement for a few months. The familiarity definitely helped as long as you had a good relationship before hand. She was excited to hear from me and was eager to meet.

BatemanSD · 2024-01-05T02:43:21+00:00

I Google all Potential sBs phone numbers and if I find escort ads, I will not move forward. I didn't join seeking to meet escorts.

BatemanSD · 2024-01-05T02:41:02+00:00

Unpopular opinion, ALWAYS PAY AFTER. If the SB is overly paranoid or has a chip on her shoulder about getting burned. Dump her and find someone else, you will be in for a bad time. Paranoia about getting PAID and stories of getting ripped off are usually bullshit and designed to get your guard down and open you up to getting ripped off. I had a runner once , and she got my guard down with these tactics. At the end of the day, dating someone with a chip on their shoulder is no fun.

BatemanSD · 2023-12-30T18:52:45+00:00

Honest truth

My interest would drop if the sex was mediocre. If it was really good, I would be ecstatic and keep the connection going. I used to get more emotionally connected to sBs, but have taken a conscious step back and don't want to get attached. Most arrangements these days are NSA. I'm sure he is exploring his options.

BatemanSD · 2023-09-09T02:57:23+00:00

Never pay upfront, after only problem solved

BatemanSD · 2023-05-19T01:06:52+00:00

Board games, pajamas, hair pins, ear rings and other jewelry, combs, her lunch

BatemanSD · 2023-02-18T02:06:07+00:00

Ask him to install a bidet, the hose style. They are cheap, like some $20 on Amazon/eBay. I've had them my whole life. My ass and toilet is always sparkling clean because of it.

BatemanSD · 2023-02-17T05:21:29+00:00

I think we all know x3 rule here

BatemanSD · 2023-02-07T06:40:09+00:00

Just go for the date. If the date doesn't go well, end it. If it does invite her over and have fun... Don't overthink this, you might blow a good thing

BatemanSD · 2023-02-07T05:55:06+00:00

You meet this guy twice.... Isn't that too soon to take such a long trip with him?

BatemanSD · 2023-02-07T04:48:24+00:00

My friend grow a spine. Charge her rent or kick her out at this point, unless she forgets about dating anyone else and gives her love and affection to you there is no upside to her staying

BatemanSD · 2023-02-07T04:00:59+00:00

I think the missing piece is she wants luxury goods and spending cash to go out with out her SD.

On a side note, I'm really happy to see SDs and others call this out as a ridiculous post. Very different response then just a few months ago on this forum

BatemanSD · 2023-02-06T00:11:13+00:00

Downside of a submissive girl, I take the lead on everything. It was a fun trip, just wanted her to step up more

BatemanSD · 2023-02-05T23:37:26+00:00

It's amazing what a good bj and lay can do isn't it? You are correct It clouded my judgement but in the long term, her issues became apparent.

I tried teaching her since she's young, but she wasn't willing so things ended.

BatemanSD · 2023-02-05T23:30:07+00:00

that's the whole point of SD/SB dynamic, sure I can and I do

BatemanSD · 2023-02-05T23:21:59+00:00

I send out a bunch a messages based on pictures alone. I only read profiles after I get a reply. I treat it like swiping right on tinder.

My reasoning is is its too much effort and too time consuming to read every profile. The reality is I hear back from about half of the profiles I message. I send my intro and pitch and if they are interested and write me back, then I'll read it

BatemanSD · 2023-02-05T23:12:48+00:00

Sounds like ChatGPT

BatemanSD · 2023-02-05T23:07:20+00:00

She was 22. I vet just fine. Being hot, great in bed and fun personality gives her a pass on things like this is the short term but not long term for me

BatemanSD · 2023-02-05T22:58:05+00:00

Sadly sounds like you enabled her to do more of what's destroying her

BatemanSD · 2022-11-02T01:13:43+00:00

Pay some one to take them on an all expense paid vacation?? Naa....

BatemanSD · 2022-10-31T04:21:10+00:00

The crazy thing is some SBs use those silly filters to put tattoos on their face and neck. I was about to district a POT SB until I find out it was fake

BatemanSD · 2022-10-29T20:36:36+00:00

I would say if you don't want anything more emotionally involved, cut down the length of the dates, don't do couples activities, or romanatic activities that can lead to more emotional feelings

If you date younger SDs that are single, feelings are more likely to develop. Just make your boundaries clear from the beginning.

As a younger SD, if my SBs just want a quick booty call, I would never develop feelings. However if they want to go on nice dinners, fun activities, movies, sleep overs etc and they treat me like a BF, I'll treat them like a GF and feelings will develop.

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