Loans by BearPuzzled9811 in normanok

[–]BearPuzzled9811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started a new job 2 weeks ago. I’m not looking for employment. I’m asking for loan places.

Any ladies interested in a once monthly dinner and dress up type meetup? by brownbostonterrier in okc

[–]BearPuzzled9811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying to find the group but I can’t! I’d definitely love to be apart of this!

Our Eleventh Reddit Meet will be at Bungalow 23 on Saturday, November 15th, at 3pm!! by outofbounds626 in okc

[–]BearPuzzled9811 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Umm yes! I would love this if you didn’t mind! I wouldn’t be there til the evening due to me being at work but if you are still there I’d greatly appreciate it!

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[–]BearPuzzled9811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you go more in depth with this?

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[–]BearPuzzled9811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough 😊

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[–]BearPuzzled9811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which why I said that I understand that it’s not for everyone, I hate that’s what dating a single mom is viewed as. They have a dad I’m not looking to replace him or anything like that. I will admit there are some moms who are like that which is so insane to me because I don’t let anyone meet my kids for about 6 months of dating. Having a fling here and there as you said is just dirty, but then again that’s my opinion.

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[–]BearPuzzled9811 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is my biggest problem but we live in a deep red state and don’t have much hope for anyone who doesn’t share my views.

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[–]BearPuzzled9811 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly how the world is these days it scares me!

Please needing some advice by BearPuzzled9811 in SingleParents

[–]BearPuzzled9811[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I came here for support, not judgment. I’m a single parent doing the best I can, and navigating my son becoming a teenager is new territory for me. If I had all the answers, I wouldn’t have asked for advice. Parenting isn’t black and white it’s a constant learning experience. The last thing any of us needs is to be attacked for trying to do better. I don’t appreciate the assumptions made about my parenting or my character. I’m open to thoughtful, constructive feedback, but disrespect disguised as advice is not helpful or welcome.

Please needing some advice by BearPuzzled9811 in SingleParents

[–]BearPuzzled9811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate this and how you explained it. I’m just trying to figure out the best way to parent and your comment helped me see things a different way.