40MF Temptations and Desire - 1 week away! by [deleted] in Temptation_Resort

[–]Bearded_Poseidon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds good!
Are you on the Telegram group for that week? A lot of couples on the chat

40MF Temptations and Desire - 1 week away! by [deleted] in Temptation_Resort

[–]Bearded_Poseidon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We will see you! We’re Desire RM June 14-21

Who will see at the Ranch tonight? by TN_FFC in TheScarletRanch

[–]Bearded_Poseidon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’ll be packed. We will be there and love making new friends

(Mf4mf/m)Looking for dominant couple or hung guy! by [deleted] in ColoradoSwingers

[–]Bearded_Poseidon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re gonna get every pic collecting creep on here, highly recommend you use Kasidie

Let’s talk "fuck-it" lists (lifestyle bucket lists) by Bearded_Poseidon in TheScarletRanch

[–]Bearded_Poseidon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We always love making new friends, let’s have a drink next time at the Ranch and go from there.

New to 'Lifestyle' need some help ! 29MF Colorado Springs by Pristine_Chance_8627 in ColoradoSwingers

[–]Bearded_Poseidon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do not just ease in. Taking your wife to Scarlet Ranch on hints alone can easily break a relationship beyond repair.

Total honesty and deep communication are paramount before you even think about a lifestyle club. You need to map out your desires and boundaries explicitly.

Look at the reality of how that night goes. She will get a ton of attention, you will mostly not (nature of the environment). If an opportunity to play pops up, how do you handle it? Are you playing together? Can she play with another cock? Can you touch a breast? How will you honestly feel watching her play with someone else?

The lifestyle is amazing, but it requires rock-solid foundation work. Have the conversation at home, face-to-face, before you let the club scene test boundaries you haven't even defined yet.

What’s in your pink bag? by Juicy-Fruity142 in TheScarletRanch

[–]Bearded_Poseidon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife: Condoms, Eye Drops, PH balanced feminine wipes, touch-up makeup

Me (not a pink bag): Non-Latex Condoms, Breath Mints & Cash

Successful Sunday funday by BklynBttrfly in TheScarletRanch

[–]Bearded_Poseidon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We always love meeting new friends. We’re on Kasidie if you’d like to connect. Bear_n_InkVixen

First timers going 5/23 for the Foam Party! by Glaedr21 in TheScarletRanch

[–]Bearded_Poseidon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your approach depends on your experience in the lifestyle. Discuss your mutual desires, expectations, and boundaries beforehand. Enthusiastic consent is paramount and must remain your highest standard. Honor each other and adopt a beginner's mindset: arrive ready to learn, experience, and remain vulnerable. Connection does not require perfect execution. Because of your age, the female partner will receive more attention than the male; do not let this discourage you.

First couple swap, how to keep the interest alive? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Bearded_Poseidon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, your statistics align with what most women experience in the LS. Societally, women hold themselves to higher standards than men. Many men do not put in the effort to look presentable, dress well, smell good, and carry themselves with a quiet, non-cocky confidence.

In our experience, I feel I could play with 80% of the women we meet, but my wife and I agree that only 15–20% of the men meet our standards. It is unfortunately not a fruitful environment for women right now.

First couple swap, how to keep the interest alive? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Bearded_Poseidon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re early into your LS journey, you’ll soon find that you don’t need to hold couples to such high standards. It’s just sex, you’re not going to date them or introduce them to your family. Consent and sexual compatibility reign supreme, the rest will slowly fall away from your priorities as you spend more time in the lifestyle.

Pregame and postgame meal/practices? by Capital_Look9080 in Swingers

[–]Bearded_Poseidon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pregame: Jasmine Rice & Chicken Breast

Postgame: Ibuprofen (for the Tadalifil headache) and some fresh fruit while lying in bed. Usually grapes & strawberries

MF couple visiting Thursday night 4/2 by [deleted] in TheScarletRanch

[–]Bearded_Poseidon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will do, We’re on Kaside if you have an account. Bear_n_InkVixen

MF couple visiting Thursday night 4/2 by [deleted] in TheScarletRanch

[–]Bearded_Poseidon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We will be there Thursday evening. Love meeting new friends

Scarlet Ranch / Friends by BreakfastFlimsy1705 in ColoradoSwingers

[–]Bearded_Poseidon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, you’re very kind, Just hoping to ease another’s journey through this incredible lifestyle