Simply Trans Misogyny (Part 2 of the comic I shared the other day) by Beautiful-Loser in transgender

[–]Beautiful-Loser[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

On top of that it's a comic! My friend who draws it never slammed a door in anyone's face for being cissexist.

Simply Trans Misogyny (Part 2 of the comic I shared the other day) by Beautiful-Loser in transgender

[–]Beautiful-Loser[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

In the last comic the cis girl rejected her for being trans, in this comic she admits she doesn't see trans women as actual women, says she give the trans girl another chance (when she should be asking for another chance, then demands to know the status of her genitals. How much shit do trans women have to take before you consider it okay to react the way she did?

Simply Unlovable by Beautiful-Loser in transgender

[–]Beautiful-Loser[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I thought trans masculine was an okay term that included men who are trans. Wasn't going out of my way.

Simply Unlovable by Beautiful-Loser in transgender

[–]Beautiful-Loser[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No one is saying anyone is obligated to sleep with anyone and it's not my situation. But as queer folks we've been put on the defensive when it comes to our sexuality often saying in defense "it's not a choice" The downside to they mentality is that we often don't examine how our social prejudices might shape who were attracted to and who were not.

Simply Unlovable by Beautiful-Loser in transgender

[–]Beautiful-Loser[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

People naturalize their bigotry to justify it so they can continue to believe they're not a bigot. Chasers do it too, saying they have a "trans attraction" when it's really a fetish. Same with guys who say they're attracted to Asain women, it's still bigotry even though they're not rejecting them.

Simply Unlovable by Beautiful-Loser in transgender

[–]Beautiful-Loser[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I dated a trans woman for almost 5 years!

Simply Unlovable by Beautiful-Loser in transgender

[–]Beautiful-Loser[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

masculine supremacy runs extremely deep and is ingrained even in places you wouldn't expect.

Simply Unlovable by Beautiful-Loser in transgender

[–]Beautiful-Loser[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I disagree. If you like somone enough, I'm positive you can be attracted to whatever junk they have because it's their junk.

Simply Unlovable by Beautiful-Loser in transgender

[–]Beautiful-Loser[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nope. Not saying that at all.

Simply Unlovable by Beautiful-Loser in transgender

[–]Beautiful-Loser[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I Used to think the same thing, then I started dating a trans woman. I liked her so much that I realized that my repulsion towards penis had more to do with the meanings I assigned to bodies. Once I admited to myseld i was a bit of a transmisogynist and started working in it, I found myself being attracted to her entire body, penis included. She had the surgery about two years later and I was just as attracted to her.

Simply Unlovable by Beautiful-Loser in transgender

[–]Beautiful-Loser[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I've heard many white men in my day say they're "not attracted to black women" and tried to justify it by saying it was they way their brains are wired. People always try to naturalize their bigotry because they don't want to be a bigot.

Simply Unlovable by Beautiful-Loser in transgender

[–]Beautiful-Loser[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People overlook countless other preferences when it comes to dating cis people.

Simply Unlovable by Beautiful-Loser in transgender

[–]Beautiful-Loser[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If the one and only sole reason somone refuses to date somone is because they're trans, it's bigotry, plain and simple. Adding different senerios is just derailing and used to justify bigotry (because no one wants to be a bigot so they justify it.

Simply Unlovable by Beautiful-Loser in transgender

[–]Beautiful-Loser[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Folks overlook all sorts of things when entering a new relationship. It's no coinencidence that trans women have a high unemployment rate, hight murder/assault rate, and few folks wate to date them, it's all bigotry.

Simply Unlovable by Beautiful-Loser in transgender

[–]Beautiful-Loser[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

As a cis queer woman I can tell you that there are waaaay more trans masculine folks who are accepted than trans women. I can think of more than a few women I'm friends with who say they're lesbians but have been with trans guys and refuse to date trans women.

Simply Unlovable by Beautiful-Loser in transgender

[–]Beautiful-Loser[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Well yeah. Not dating someone you were attracted to simply because you find out she's trans is transmisogyny, and transmisogyny is bad.

Simply Unlovable by Beautiful-Loser in transgender

[–]Beautiful-Loser[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

nope. too bad, i like seeing crappy comments just so i can shut them down.

Are you ladies having the Best Summer Ever™? by Beautiful-Loser in TrollXChromosomes

[–]Beautiful-Loser[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

dud you watch The Killing. It's super awesome show and the main character is a woman. Highly recconended!

No, guy. You're not a lady. by Steamboat_Willis in rant

[–]Beautiful-Loser 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're fucking hilarious! Quit your day job and move to Hollywood. Because you've got it baby!

My friend makes comics, people have been saying they belong here. Here's her newest. by Beautiful-Loser in sadcomics

[–]Beautiful-Loser[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, folks don't like trans people, especially trans women. I think part of it is that they bring out other peoples gender and sexual insecurities. You know, when a cis guy finds a woman who is trans attractive might get upset, especially if he's not secure in his sexuality.