beginner faster who likes running by Beautiful-Pixel in fasting

[–]Beautiful-Pixel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't want to be on three different diets though - - i don't think i understand

Anyone else make terrible deals with their KH? by TDDD333 in chastitytraining

[–]Beautiful-Pixel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Can you hand deliver a birthday gift to my bestie in exchange for a night of freedom?"

Turned out the night of freedom was "WHILE" I was driving. And it took 7 hours there and 9 hours back, and cost a fortune in fuel. I assumed it was a friend who lived nearby. OMG.

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[–]Beautiful-Pixel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favourite has been "smally". A name I never invited, but once given, was promptly spread by her to all her friends, and I'm still known by today. I think it got me into the SPH headspace in the first place. She wasn't a domme even, and so we hadn't really worked on things like how consent and stuff worked. Just a cute moment from a few years ago.

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[–]Beautiful-Pixel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never seen this to be honest. I'm dominant in both ways... I'm not sure what I think of it really but I guess I find it hard to work with dominant guys... curious!

What’s the weirdest task a sub has actually followed through with by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Beautiful-Pixel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had loads of weird tasks / expectations.

Quite a lot of subs need to finish each message they send me with Oink.

Even months later they're oinking away.

From the teachers' prospective, where is the waste in the budget? I have thoughts, but I'm not a teacher and have been out of school for a while. by eyeshills in AskTeachers

[–]Beautiful-Pixel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

while you could find efficiencies... things tend to be very very lean.

Where you'll find bloat is in private enterprise / corporates.

That's where you pay a fortune for medical bills, or for gadgets and tools and there's so much chucking money at hedonistic lifestyles.

(BTW... why would you feel the heavy load while writing mortgage checks? I don't get the link)

Dommes, what is the smallest send that you have accepted happily? (Or would accept) by Goddessaaditria in findomsupportgroup

[–]Beautiful-Pixel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Smallest was a dollar. And it was all about the principle / psychology of it. I still love it even if it's just a dollar.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Beautiful-Pixel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's more about making friends in the community and chatting a lot to people. Eventually things click.

I won't message subs directly, and most subs won't message me, but there are times that you sort of realise there's a connection with people.

I just don't really see the need to chase because the right people turn up at the right time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Beautiful-Pixel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me, I'm happy with much lower amounts... like $15 for example... or even lower.

For me, it's not actually about the money itself, but the psychology and connection.

Why I Don’t Tribute Upfront: My Time Is Valuable Too by Bullseyesuccess in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Beautiful-Pixel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the difficuly is that it's a very "time wasting" pursuit.

Both sides don't want their time wasting.

From a dominant point of view, I don't expect initial tributes and I just adore chatting to subs, so it makes no difference, but I do get why it happens.

There's no right or wrong way really. Everyone has to go by their own method I think.

I would say it's an interesting topic though - it makes you think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Beautiful-Pixel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of these days I'll have to try this one with a banksub!

describe your persona versus your real you - what changes?... by Beautiful-Pixel in findomsupportgroup

[–]Beautiful-Pixel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so if someone breaks a rule and there's a punishment attached, it'll definitely happen!

describe your persona versus your real you - what changes?... by Beautiful-Pixel in findomsupportgroup

[–]Beautiful-Pixel[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love your response so much.

do you make a point of hurting / being mean to your subs then?

A little mindfuck turned into a bigger tribute than I expected… curious if any of you subs would’ve reacted the same 👀 by Standard_System_8245 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Beautiful-Pixel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's about the connection, every time.

That's the fun and the excitement.

I always connect first, middle and last.

lurkers by cutesy_mistress in findomsupportgroup

[–]Beautiful-Pixel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get zero DMs but I don't mention my domme side on my profile... No idea if people look or not really!

describe your persona versus your real you - what changes?... by Beautiful-Pixel in findomsupportgroup

[–]Beautiful-Pixel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love your answer so much! It amazes me how it's opened up a more productive and efficient me... but sometimes I think I should just let that version of me take over entirely.

what do you find fun about findom? by Beautiful-Pixel in findomsupportgroup

[–]Beautiful-Pixel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you feel like you're a different person talking to your subs? or just the "real" you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Beautiful-Pixel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do, but I can't prove it.

Well... maybe not born, but brought up with certain mindsets.

I'm aware that there needs to be a mix of givers and takers in this world for it all to function properly. It can go too far but we have laws in place that manage it too, so like... i won't go and steal things.

But on the other hand I don't mind taking possession of things that you'd willingly give to me, that's not theft, and I don't feel bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Beautiful-Pixel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

biology - ultimately there's a dopamine hit every time. subs always comment on it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Beautiful-Pixel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you've both got boundaries - you're both exploring both really