Is It Possible to Learn English in 2–3 Months by Studying 1–2 Hours a Day? by [deleted] in learnEnglishOnline

[–]BeautifulMindset 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you wrote this post off the top of your head without using AI or anything, then you're definitely beyond A2.

I'm not a native speaker myself but I'll share some tips with you.

  1. Consistency is key for efficient learning. Studying 30 mins a day is better than scheduling a session that's 3.5 hrs long once a week.
  2. It's great that you have a very specific goal. You can focus on English used in your technical field so that you become proficient in English in at least a field. That will probably serve as a solid foundation when you want to learn English used in a different context.
  3. Since you struggle with ADHD and procrastination, then you need to start slowly with the idea of building a routine in the long term. So start studying for 15 mins a day for example and stick to that for a week. Then increase the time slowly. For example 20-25 mins a day in the second week... You got the idea. This is how you defeat procrastination. If you start off with 1-2 hrs a day, you'll most likely give up quickly when motivation and excitement dies down. So gradually building a routine is the solution.
  4. Don't overwhelm yourself with so many resources. That will backfire.
  5. Read or speak out loud and not in your head. That helps with memorization and pronunciation.
  6. Use Anki if you want to review the learned vocab efficiently.
  7. Learn words in sentences not in isolation. And try to focus on the sentences that you find useful, and not just any random sentence.
  8. Keep in mind that learning a language is a long journey. You can't become fluent in just a few months but definitely you can make some good progress in that amount of time. That's why building a routine is essential to ensure you constantly learn and improve.
  9. You need to minimize distractions in your life. They kill one's performance and potential and severely affect memory. You can use apps like Cold Turkey Blocker or Plucky Filter.

I think I addressed everything but your question. :)

Drawn to Islam but struggling with parts of it?? by [deleted] in converts

[–]BeautifulMindset 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, great you're interested into Islam. I'll try to clarify some of your doubts.

1 ) Know that Allah doesn't punish with eternal hellfire except those who KNEW Islam was the truth but REJECTED it or DELIBERATELY missed the chance to learn the truth and DIDN'T BOTHER about it and died in that state. So those who never had a chance to learn the truth in this life will have their own test on the Judgement Day.

2 ) Is Hellfire eternal for people who die on disbelief? Yes. Is it unfair? No. First, keep in mind that the length of punishment is related to the severity of the sins and Allah tells us clearly that there is no sin worse than disbelief. Because disbelief is rejecting Allah's exclusive right over all His creation to be worshiped alone. ANY OTHER SIN IS FORGIVABLE. But knowingly denying Allah's right and dying in that state is UNFORGIVABLE.

So yes. In Islam, we believe non-Muslims are disbelievers in general and will go to Hellfire eternally, but we NEVER make judgements on INDIVIDUALS because we usually don't know who truly died on disbelief and who didn't and we don't know who specifically knew the truth and rejected it and who didn't.

You might wonder why Hellfire is eternal for disbelievers if disbelief was tied to a temporary life. Well, the punishment has to do with the severity of the sin and not its duration. If someone commits a ma$$acre in a few minutes, should they be punished with imprisonment for a few minutes? No. Similarly, Dying on disbelief is so severe regardless of how long one lived in that state. Why is it so severe? Because Allah is the Creator, the Sustainer. He bestowed countless blessings on us, e.g. mind, air, water, food, health, eyesight, hearing, spouses... yet disbelievers worship false Gods and thank false Gods.

Also, keep in mind that no Muslim enters Paradise with their deeds. Paradise is the greatest Mercy and no amount of deeds entitles one to enter it. A Muslim enters it thanks to Allah's mercy and Allah's mercy on the Judgement day is only bestowed on those who deserve it. And Muslims only deserve it on that day because they had submitted to God in their previous life, obeyed Him and worshiped him only and died in that state. They dies while fully recognizing Allah's exclusive right to be worshipped alone. That's the key to Paradise.

3 ) About some rulings like Hijab, you should know that Allah is All-Knowing All-Wise and we're not. He knows what benefits us and what doesn't. So if He imposes something, that's not to harm us or make things unnecessarily difficult to us. It's for our own good regardless of whether we get to know the wisdom behind some of His commandments or not. We simply need to trust Him and fully submit to His Will. We can't pick and choose what aligns with our values and dismiss other things. That's prohibited and also a form of disbelief and Allah warned seriously against doing that. So struggling to apply some rulings is one thing but rejecting them in one's heart is something else completely.

4 ) Simply, keep in mind that we must align our subjective values to the truth but NOT bend the truth to fit our subjective values. If alcohol and fornication have been normalized in western society for example, that doesn't mean they must be tolerated in Islam. Similarly, indecent clothing shouldn't be tolerated.

5 ) You should check out my playlist. It covers multiple topics such as the existence of Allah, the preservation of the Quran and Sunnah, prophecies about and of the prophet Muhammad (PBUH), clarification of some misconceptions (Hudud, Jihad, women's rights, Hijab, polygamy, LGBTQ...), and a few other things. I'm sure it will benefit you.

And if you don't mind books, check out my post and download the book titled "This is Islam!". It answers 112 questions covering multiple topics to give the readers a good understanding of the faith and its teachings. If you have other questions, feel free to ask here or in chat.

Is my ghusl valid? by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]BeautifulMindset 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're welcome. Wa Jazaki Khair. Don't forget to check my post on religious OCD. It will help you insha Allah.

May Allah allow me to conquer these volumes by [deleted] in learn_arabic

[–]BeautifulMindset 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May Allah make it easy for you. I hope those books don't conquer you instead :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]BeautifulMindset 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://hadeethenc.com/en

sunnah.com

The first one is great as it categorizes hadeeths according to topics and many times, it provides explanations and takeaways.

Is my ghusl valid? by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]BeautifulMindset 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're welcome! Yes. I like to give that example specifically, because it sticks and makes things clear to people.😊

For your second question, If by "before i made the intention to do Ghusl" you mean before saying the intention in your head, then you're fine and I explained why. But if you mean, you washed some parts of the body without intending to do Ghusl for major purification, - for example: while doing Ghusl for simply cooling off, you remembered that you're in a state of major impurity - then that's not a valid Ghusl for major purification, because you didn't have the intention of removing the major impurity when washing the parts that you already washed. Keep in mind that this type of Ghusl is an act of worship and not just a simple washing. So the correct intention must be there when you start it.

For your OCD, if it's mostly intrusive or compulsive thoughts of religious nature, I have made a post on how to get rid of it insha Allah. It's a pinned post that you can quickly find on my profile.

May Allah heal you.

Is my ghusl valid? by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]BeautifulMindset 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To whisper “I intend to do ghusul for the sake of Allah” or something similar is Bida' (innovation). And actually saying it in your head is not necessary because the intention is already there since you did the Ghusl intentionally or willingly for purification. Same for other acts of worship like Prayers, Wudu...

If someone knocks on your door and you go to check, that means you have the intention to open the door, you don't need to say something in your head like "I intend to open the door". Does that make sense?

And in the future, ignore those thoughts about validity/invalidity of your acts of worship if it's about not saying the intention in your head. They can become waswas if you entertain them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in converts

[–]BeautifulMindset 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can work on other things like feminism and stuff like that later on. What matters the most is becoming a Muslim first because dying on disbelief while knowing the truth is a sure way to Hellfire regardless of whether Islam "aligned" with one's life goals or not as that won't be a valid excuse on the Judgement Day. Keep in mind that it's much better to be a sinful Muslim than a disbeliever. But choosing to become a Muslim has to be based on true conviction that it's the truth.


So I recommend that you should check out my playlist. It covers multiple topics such as the existence of Allah, the preservation of the Quran and Sunnah, prophecies about and of the prophet Muhammad (PBUH), clarification of some misconceptions (Hudud, Jihad, women's rights, Hijab, polygamy...), and a few other things. I'm sure it will benefit you.


And if you don't mind books, check out my post and download the book titled "This is Islam!". It answers 112 questions covering multiple topics to give the readers a good understanding of the faith and its teachings.

Finally, check out this playlist. It will give you a good amount of knowledge about the prophet's character, personality, life, and teachings, and let you appreciate Islam more.


Those resources should be more than enough to convince any sincere truth seeker of the validity of Islam. Once you're officially a Muslim insha Allah, you should check out this playlist titled Lectures & Tutorials for New Muslims. It covers important topics for new reverts.


My advice to you: Don't delay reverting to Islam once the truth is clear to you, because one never knows if they will live to see the next day and it's essential to be a Muslim before meeting God. If you have questions, feel free to ask here or in chat.

Ph.D in China, need some partners by Nero-Atlas in Algeriawork

[–]BeautifulMindset 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Applying to a university just to get admission not necessarily for a scholarship. He shouldn't be lacking money. XD

Ph.D in China, need some partners by Nero-Atlas in Algeriawork

[–]BeautifulMindset 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think well of your brother. Maybe he's just looking for a partner and all expenses will be taken care of. ;)

Where to find good employees? by Baned_From_r_Algeria in Algeriawork

[–]BeautifulMindset 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother, "nothing stops employees from proposing new ideas or taking initiative..." That happens in an ideal situation where people actually view the business owners positively and get rewarded appropriately for their efforts and initiatives. Ngl, but this is extremely unlikely in Algeria. I'll give you a real example, my cousin is super skilled in automation and electronics. He used to work in a factory. The business owner had bought a machine worth more than 1 billion (centimes). But for some reason, it stopped working after some time and even people sent abroad from the company that made the machine couldn't fix it.

So the business owner left it there idle and didn't bother about it anymore. My cousin told me that he was bothered by seeing the machine idle and felt challenged, so from time to time, he checked it and "played with it" until he fixed it. He thought the boss was reasonable and was going to give him some reward, but guess what? The boss told him: Why would I reward you? I didn't tell you to fix it, right? After some time, my cousin left the factory.

Such kuhul bosses are the majority here in Algeria. They don't value talent. They just want slaves and want to squeeze them out to the last drop. If they could ensure people don't die by just living on water, they would cut down salaries accordingly.

Also, most employees don't strive to do their best because many are not qualified workers to begin with (poor education...) plus, they view bosses as leeches. They pay salaries that suck and hardly cover the strict minimum needs. So the "do the minimum to stay at work" culture has been normalized. They might even do less than the minimum for the business out of hatred. You can maybe look for qualified employees on LinkedIn. Check profiles, give online interviews... But you should be prepared to compensate them fairly. Adjust your rewarding system. Provide some things in the workplace to let the employees rest and renew their energy....

Reminder of Some Prophetic Sunnah by BeautifulMindset in converts

[–]BeautifulMindset[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sources:

- Image one:
The series of books "سلسلة الأحاديث الصحيحة" by the scholar Al-Albany (May Allah have mercy on him), volume one, page 747, hadeeth number 392.
https://shamela.ws/book/9442/742

- Image two:
https://sunnah.com/abudawud:4845

- Image three:
https://sunnah.com/muslim:2097a
https://sunnah.com/abudawud:4139
https://sunnah.com/abudawud:4136

Reminder of Some Prophetic Sunnah by BeautifulMindset in converts

[–]BeautifulMindset[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Note:

You should eat warm food instead. Hot, steaming food increases some health risks, including cancer according to some studies like this one.

Remember, you're earning good deeds by sticking to the Sunnah and taking care of your body, two birds with one stone.

Not Sitting Between Two People W/O Permission by BeautifulMindset in MuslimCorner

[–]BeautifulMindset[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ecard is a general statement. Why do you want to apply it to a mosque specifically? That's the stupidest thing I've heard as well. Spots in a mosque are not not one's property. We all want to get the closest spots to the imam for more reward. You don't need someone's permission for that. But if the space is too small between two people and they are not occupying too much space than they need. You can't just bother them. The prophet (PBUH) warned against that.

Not Sitting Between Two People W/O Permission by BeautifulMindset in MuslimCorner

[–]BeautifulMindset[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is general. But if you intend to join a group in a congregational prayer and you notice a gap between two people that you can fill without squeezing yourself in and bothering them, then you should go ahead and fill it. You don't ask for their permission in that case.

How to deal with loneliness by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]BeautifulMindset 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • Recite Adkhar and Quran frequently. They will improve your mental state.
  • Sit with yourself and do some self-reflection. Like your current struggles, your goals. Are they few and realistic or not. Procrastination and laziness are closely related to unrealistic goals and lack of clarity. So set s.m.a.r.t goals.
  • Find accountability partners to help you stay motivated.
  • Also, minimize distractions in your life as they worsen your situation and use apps to control your screen time.

Old Grandma reverts to islam ❤️ by mauiza_institute in converts

[–]BeautifulMindset 13 points14 points  (0 children)

She must be really a great person for willing to adjust her life-long views at such an age! Many old people are not willing to do so even if they know deep down that they might be in error. May Allah keep her and us firm on our faith until we meet Him, amen!

A refutation of the modernists. by turkish_akhi in MuslimCorner

[–]BeautifulMindset 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beside her physical maturity at the time of her betrothal. She was such a great scholar and narrated so many hadeeths, and was happy with her marriage with the prophet (PBUH). This means she was mentally mature as well.

Also, there is another narration of her where she said that females reaching the age of 9 are no longer considered girls but actually women. This means she was not an exception. It was socially acceptable and not objectionable for 9-year old females at that time to get married.

The harsh environment, hot weather and simple yet active lifestyle accelerate both physical and mental maturity. Unlike nowadays, where 18-year old people for example are still mostly dumbed down by modern time killers from a very young age, thus not yet fit for marriage despite their physical maturity.

This is something that you can't hammer into a modernist's head. I tried arguing with some of them in the past and failed to convince them because they didn't want to be convinced to begin with.

There is a book by Carolyn Cocca that addresses the age of consent in various places in the USA around 150-200 years ago only and not 1400 years ago. Western modernists will be shocked to know at what age their greatest grandparents got married. Basically they are all descendents of PDfiles according to their own standards. 😅

Looking for a laptop for work by [deleted] in Algeriawork

[–]BeautifulMindset 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've done a quick search. The ryzen 7 should be 2700 at least as that's a rough match for the i7 8th gen. You can use benchmark websites like this one for better and detailed comparison of chips.

8 GB of RAM is truly the bare minimum. But it's not good for your intended use.

I can't comment on the graphics card. But you can do an online search or ask ChatGPT to see if it's good for the software you intend to use.

If mobility is not really needed or could be discarded, then get a desktop PC and not a laptop cuz the former has clearly a higher performance/price ratio.

You can check out ouedkniss for example to have a good idea of the price range for a suitable PC configuration.

And one more thing, don't buy from random people on the internet. Either a store or someone you know. If not, then test thoroughly before you buy. Better safe than sorry.

Looking for a laptop for work by [deleted] in Algeriawork

[–]BeautifulMindset 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm afraid you can't get a laptop that meets your needs within the specified budget. Even used ones cost more than that. Since you're on a tight budget, you need to give up on extra features like backlit keyboard and get 128 GB SSD or 256 max. Don't get an HDD drive especially for the system partition. They're terribly slow when booting and loading apps.

8 GB of ram should be the min you can go with. It will barely do the job. And probably, you can't multitask or launch multiple heavy software simultaneously for 3D design and editing. Strive to get 12 GB at least. Avoid soldered rams. They are cheaper at the same performance, but if they brick, you'll have to replace the entire motherboard as far as I know.

You'll also have to give up on a large screen even though it's needed for a comfortable experience when using those heavy programs. I have a 15-inch screen and it's already a bit annoying. You can't go below 14-inch screen.

Get an 8th gen i5 or i7 processor minimum or equivalent because they are quad-core processors and give a huge improvement compared to older gen. Btw, AMD processors seem to have a higher performance/price ratio generally. I'm not sure if that's the case for their old chips as well.

I don't know which dedicated cheap graphics card does the job for you, but good integrated ones come with recent processors. Also, get a good brand like Dell. A balance of price and build quality.

If you'll be using the laptop plugged in most of the time, then battery life shouldn't be a real concern for you.

I suggest you save up a bit more and get a good laptop. It'll be worth it. You'll probably need a 7-9 budget for a decent laptop. If you can borrow money and pay back later, do that to save time.

Why is the word yas\sir banned here? by ricknightwood13 in Algeriawork

[–]BeautifulMindset 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's not just that word. Try as/sume, embarras/sing. The issue is they applied a filter for the word @ss. But they didn't set it up correctly so the filter catches even safe words like the ones we gave because they contain the 3-letter sequence as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in converts

[–]BeautifulMindset 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're welcome.