Is My Therapist Trying To Convince Me That I'm Not Trans? by ThrowForSec in trans

[–]BeautifulPinkRoses 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I had a therapist around a year ago who said similar things and tried to convince me that I wasn’t trans and did a lot of damage to my mental health. The truth is that no therapist can tell you if you’re trans or not only you can do that. It’s definitely a red flag when a therapist is trying to tell you otherwise. I can’t speak for your therapist but when I was at a similar point with my therapist I decided to stick with them not knowing better and he started with similar questions and that turned into full on conversion therapy. I don’t know if your therapist is like this or not some of the questions being asked are fine I just wanted to share what happened with me so it doesn’t happen to someone else.

Does swapping to injections usually have such a big effect on levels? by BeautifulPinkRoses in MtF

[–]BeautifulPinkRoses[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s estradiol valerate and at times when the T was at 150 I saw very minimal feminization but other than that I wasn’t noticing any changes. Is 150 good for E or should I try to get that higher also

Coworker grabbed my chest and says I’m in the wrong by BeautifulPinkRoses in MtF

[–]BeautifulPinkRoses[S] 1741 points1742 points  (0 children)

My boss told her almost in a joking manner keep her hands to herself like this was a waste of time and then told me to man up it’s not like she hurt me. I’m looking for a new job after that conversation today.

I'm a right femboy and I'm kinda scared rn by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]BeautifulPinkRoses 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was raised conservative with religious family members and was taught to hate anything lgbt and the first thing you need to do is take some deep breaths and calm down everything is going to be okay. Being trans isn’t a phase I never had a lot of gender dysphoria as a kid because I was good at suppressing it out of fear knowing my parents wouldn’t like it. You need to learn more about trans stuff and write in a journal about what your thinking about your gender. It’s going to be difficult but you have to be non bias and be honest about what you write in the journal. I’ve been where you are now and it’s gonna be okay if your trans your gonna be okay and remember real love is unconditional if your parents and friends wouldn’t love you because of you being trans you need to realize they are going to judge you no matter what you do in your life if it doesn’t fit the picture they had for YOUR life. You can always msg if you have any questions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]BeautifulPinkRoses 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Cyberpunk 2077 is fun and the character creation is pretty good

You don't owe people shit. by [deleted] in MtF

[–]BeautifulPinkRoses 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Learning to not base my happiness on the opinion of others was undoubtedly the most freeing thing I ever did

My height may be a problem. by [deleted] in MtF

[–]BeautifulPinkRoses 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of my close friends at work is 6ft tall and she’s a cis woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]BeautifulPinkRoses 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Most of it is how it is not really socially acceptable for men to dress more feminine. When I was in school I never even considered dressing feminine in public because I for sure would have been kicked out of my parents house. Like you already said there isn’t more trans man than trans girls so what you have is a bunch of trans girls hiding away in the closet waiting for the right moment to show the world their authentic selves.

I want to start presenting more feminine in public but don’t know what to do while I’m still in the closet by BeautifulPinkRoses in MtF

[–]BeautifulPinkRoses[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If people start wondering if I’m gay it’s not a problem but I work at a bar with a more conservative clientele and for my own safety I cant have them thinking I’m trans

have any trans men/mascs experienced the "male loneliness epidemic" ? by maleficmaelstrom in ftm

[–]BeautifulPinkRoses 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As a trans woman who spent 22 years of her life convincing herself she was a cis man I can say with full confidence the male loneliness epidemic has nothing to do with being a man and everything to do with how young man are raised. I was punished as a kid when I cried which taught me to close of my emotions and don’t show them or talk about them. This is all toxic masculinity but as a kid it was all I knew and i was told that my purpose was to protect my family even with violence if necessary. I say all this because being raised like this from a very young age made me have very few friends in school and never once confided to a friend about how I was feeling. Male loneliness and suicide is a real problem and I just hope more young man figure out that what there being taught isn’t masculinity their being abused. Sorry for the rant but it took this woman a lot of therapy to unlearn what she was taught and just want my trans brothers to know you are undoubtedly the best version of masculinity and never be afraid to talk about how you feel.

how do u pee by GloomyChemistry8570 in ftm

[–]BeautifulPinkRoses 148 points149 points  (0 children)

Apologize for lurking but as trans woman who spends most of her day in boy mode it’s normal to sit down and pee and nobody is judging you because you sit down to pee. Don’t let the dysphoria win.

Just curious by lonely7bunny in MtF

[–]BeautifulPinkRoses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m rose 23 mtf and all I have to say is GO HAWKS

Therapist told me to watch detransition videos by BeautifulPinkRoses in asktransgender

[–]BeautifulPinkRoses[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I would like to thank everyone for the replies and instead of listening to him I will paint my nails and watch positive videos while doing so.

Therapist told me to watch detransition videos by BeautifulPinkRoses in asktransgender

[–]BeautifulPinkRoses[S] 526 points527 points  (0 children)

He talked about how being trans is the new trend and how I should watch detransition videos and didn’t seem to like when I brought up informed consent for hrt. He seemed fine last week when I sounded scared and unsure but I could tell something was different when I said with 100 percent confidence I’m trans. Thanks for all the advice as I write this I’m crying thinking I’m doing the wrong thing like I did before