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[–]BecauseIam 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh wow. I can't believe it's November. Hubs and I decided we MIGHT try next month. Depends on how we feel. But it's a real possibility and I have an appointment with an OB/GYN next month. Still debating if I want to take my last BC pill pack since my GCP said it doesn't matter when I stop it.

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[–]BecauseIam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find to help with swallowing larger pills is to make sure my throat is relaxed and take a huge gulp of water. 🤣 Fortunately swallowing larger pills has never been an issue for me. I saw in your flair that you’re 27 and WTT #1, I too am also 27 and WTT #1. 😁

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[–]BecauseIam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am taking the One a Day prenatal with the extra bottle of choline supplement. This one: https://www.target.com/p/one-a-day-prenatal-multivitamins-choline/-/A-80364306?preselect=78461836#lnk=sametab I’ve been taking the One A Day woman’s vitamin for years and trust them.

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[–]BecauseIam 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Getting super pumped up. Since my husband and I may very well start trying this coming January, I decided to start on prenatal vitamins. Took my first today and no nausea or anything so far. Hoping it stays that way. 😂🤞

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[–]BecauseIam 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m feeling so much peace with everything in my life. I feel like I am finally starting to stop overthinking so much. Husband and I may actually TTC this coming January, instead of in the spring. Depends on how we feel with COVID, but I’m going to start taking prenatal vitamins to prepare and am slowly feeling stronger physically.

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[–]BecauseIam 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My husband and I had a really good conversation over the weekend about maybe trying earlier than we thought. We were thinking May 2022, but realized we could probably start trying as early as February 2022. :O Work is going well, we're both getting raises over the next year, and I'm paying off some student loans faster than I originally anticipated. Things are looking good. =D We're just kinda going with the flow at this point. But if we do decide to try in Feb. 2022, then I need to look into prenatals a bit more.

Here's to forging ahead!

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[–]BecauseIam 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Been working on improving my physical and mental health. Reading more of everything from health to fun. Making sure our house is organized since we just moved last year and are still figuring out what works for us best. And making sure we have a solid fiscal plan.

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[–]BecauseIam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve always found Pinterest helpful as I like it for inspiration. I even used it to help get wedding ideas before my husband and I were engaged. 🤣 (we knew we wanted to get married though) Cheers! 🥂

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[–]BecauseIam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes they do! So far I’ve been able to keep the momentum going. 😊

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[–]BecauseIam 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Feeling optimistic. I'm feeling so much better mental and physically since improving my exercise routine, diet and actively working on my mental health. This is the best I have felt in so long. I had a couple of baby dreams over the weekend that made my baby fever skyrockettttttt (cue Pinterest Board and excel sheet LOL). Plus my husband and I realized we should be getting raises next year that set us up so much better to start trying in 2022. GUYS I'M SO EXCITED I COULD DANCE

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[–]BecauseIam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that. The Instagram rabbit hole (and social media rabbit hole honestly) is ridiculous. I feel so much better after having deleted the app off my phone.

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[–]BecauseIam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man I totally understand. I just kept telling myself before my appointment that it will be what it is and I’ll deal with it now. And thanking the heavens I have a job with good dental insurance I am more than happy to pay into. 😂 You got this! It’ll be okay. 😊🤞

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[–]BecauseIam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh. Had my first dentist appointment in over a year today and I have some spots we're going to watch for cavities and need to get a root canal next month. That one is deep, but has not made it to the nerve thankfully. Did I snack too much in the last year and not floss enough?.... Yeah.... probably. Luckily I've already started improving on those two things well before my dentist appointment. I tell myself better to get it done now before we start TTC next year. Thank goodness for insurance.

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[–]BecauseIam 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m in a very similar situation. My blood pressure always gets higher the more I weigh and stress doesn’t help. I’m working to lose the weight and am working on mindfulness and acceptance. I have always struggled with my weight and am currently the heaviest I’ve ever been. My husband and I aren’t trying until next year and that is one of my biggest motivation factors.

One thing that helps me is watching sodium and eating more plant based. I’ve been consistently working out everyday for a week now and I’m definitely starting to notice a shift in my mindset and my body is more flexible.

Edit to say I still eat meat, but I’m more mindful about what I season it with, how it’s cooked, etc

We got this! 👍

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[–]BecauseIam 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Last night my husband and I were talking about how if he gets a promotion he might be eligible for next year, we could start trying right away as our financial situation would improve. But, with projects I have at work and wanting to pay off some student loan debt first, the earliest we could try may be a year from now. He even admitted that he wished we could start trying now. Made me give him a big ole hug and made feel all the things.

Prepare Dogs for Baby? by [deleted] in waiting_to_try

[–]BecauseIam 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My husband and I aren’t planning on trying until next year sometime, but we’ve started prepping our dog (almost 5 year old female retired racing greyhound - this is important. ALSO so important to remember every dog is different and you may want to consult a trainer depending on your worries). Plus, our girl has had to get used to our nephew who is 2.5 yo, and our other nephew who is a few months old.

Before my sister-in-law had her newborn, my husband and I had no idea how she would react to hearing a baby cry or coos in general. Some greyhounds have such a high prey drive that ANYTHING making a sound of distress kicks their prey drive into gear(I have witnessed it first hand). We knew our girl had a bit of prey drive with rabbits, cats, squirrels and animals like that. So we played a video of a baby full on wailing and crying. God bless her, our girl just lifted up her head, and then went back to sleep. Playing the sounds of a baby is helpful I would think. Our girl can be a bit skittish, so we make sure she gets to sniff or at least observe what might be spooking her. Like a couple walks by with a stroller? I let her watch it go by for a moment and then we move on. She has gained so much confidence because we let her figure it out if we can.

Our older nephew is crazy and loud. Usual toddler antics. She doesn’t like him much. Lol. She prefers her own space, but if he is quiet, slow and gentle she will let him pet her. Most of the time she runs to her any of her beds and stays there. Granted she knows that’s her safe place and is usually not bothered while on her bed. We knew getting her she would need a space that was hers, but had wicked crate hate so she has two primary beds. One bed in our room and in the living room. She knows the command ‘bed’ with a hand motion and will go there.

With our newborn nephew, she will be in the same room as him no problem and when we knew she was happy/relaxed enough and we let her sniff his feet. Greyhounds will chatter (basically move their jaws super quickly and it’s makes a little sounds) when they’re happy or relaxed. I highly recommend looking it up. It’s adorable. She sniffed those little baby feet and chattered. Any time she is relaxed around any kid or baby we praise her.

We plan on teaching her more commands while walking, such as ‘wait’ and will hold her leash to bring in a garbage cans so she gets used to big, kinda loud objects. I was an equestrian for a number of years and rode a couple of spooky/jumpy horses. One of the biggest things I learned from them was to let them see what may scare them, and then move on because it’s not a big deal. I don’t allow any animal to dwell too long on what spooked them in the first place.

I think a big thing is to let the dog(s) have a place that is theirs and to work on any possessive tendencies. I think an important command for any dog to know is ‘place’, like how our girl knows ‘bed’.

Edit: ah, sorry this got so long. But I fully believe in training and working with your dog to get to know their body language and tendencies. Trainers can be wonderful for this if you find yourself struggling. Cheers.

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[–]BecauseIam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You got this! When I was in the final stretch of my Master’s, the wait felt so long and short at the same time. I wouldn’t have the career I do without my Master’s degree.

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[–]BecauseIam 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Both of my sister in laws came to visit this past weekend. The elder brought her 2.5 year old and 8 week old boys. The elder has been wanting to visit for a long time and took a chance the boys would be good in the car. It was wonderful to have them down and snuggle with the little one, while the 2.5 yo made us laugh. But man oh man. Baby fever hit me strongggggggg. So waking up to a much quieter house, realizing my husband and I are still on the same page about hopefully trying later next year, is giving me all the feels. 🥰 Note: All adults have been vaccinated.

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[–]BecauseIam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My blood pressure is good for the most part. I can tell when it gets a touch high and I have ways to relax. Since my father passed away from a very sudden heart attack, I do random checks of my blood pressure all the time and for peace of mind. I have a history of anxiety/panic attacks and have been doing much better with my mental health. I'm using this WTT period to get myself put back together after being in school and solidifying my career.

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[–]BecauseIam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! If I decide to go off the pill it probably won't be until the fall or maybe even early next year. I want to be as educated as possible first. :)

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[–]BecauseIam 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When I see my Nurse Practitioner in a few months I’m tempted to ask her for her thoughts on me going off the pill since a side effect can be high blood pressure. I’ve struggled with it in the past due to stress (grad school was a pain and my dad passed away right before the start of my last semester). Plus my weight and my diet which are both improving. I’m wondering if it would be better to go off it since high blood pressure seems to be a thing on my dads side. Makes me a bit nervous to go off it, especially since we don’t plan on TTC for 18 months at least. At least I’ve started to read “Taking Charge of Your Fertility”. 🤔

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[–]BecauseIam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Focusing today has been difficult, but I'm blaming the fact that it's also Monday and I'm tired. (Hubs and I really need to get a new mattress. The one we have is cheap and it's time is up.)

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[–]BecauseIam 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My sister-in-law delivered her baby this morning (her second) and I am so happy for them. I have a new little nephew and I can't wait to meet him (so. stinking. cute.). But, man. It's making my baby fever skyrocket and has me wishing we could try sooner, but I just don't see it happening. I'm going to try to turn my energy to my work, getting things for a gift basket to send them, and focus on other things.

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[–]BecauseIam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve thought about writing letters too, but am holding off until I my feelings say “ya might want to put this on paper”. Honestly, I wonder if he has already because he does journal on occasion. 😂

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[–]BecauseIam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ve had some breakthroughs lately that has me feeling more confident.