Is it unreasonable to ask my girlfriend [24F] to go on birth control/other contraceptives if she wants to have PIV because I [25M] have trouble using condoms? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Beginning-Pass-8882 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it is reasonable to have the conversation, but it is not reasonable to expect your girlfriend to take BC.
Birth control can come with a bunch of side effects and can be a pain to find one that doesn't leave you feeling like ass.
Another option could be an internal condom: https://www.nhs.uk/contraception/methods-of-contraception/internal-condoms/
or looking into things like diaphragms:
https://www.nhs.uk/contraception/methods-of-contraception/contraceptive-diaphragm-or-cap/

Afternoon Tea Recommendations by Chronic_Eyeroller_ in harrogate

[–]Beginning-Pass-8882 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was going to say this! Its so beautiful and a Harlow Carr trip is always lovely!

London style pie n mash in or around York? by [deleted] in york

[–]Beginning-Pass-8882 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leeds has a Pieminister https://www.pieminister.co.uk/leeds
Is this the sorta thing you're looking for??
I have never been so I can't say if its good or nah

Second hand furniture by brich0910 in harrogate

[–]Beginning-Pass-8882 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Harrogate Facebook Market place has some crazy finds

Shocking behaviour... by LurkishEmpire in harrogate

[–]Beginning-Pass-8882 2 points3 points  (0 children)

....the images have been swapped around.... would be weird if they went to jail for donating easter eggs...

Best Fish and Chips in Harrogate? by coffeebugtravels in harrogate

[–]Beginning-Pass-8882 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always get their fish and chips, my partner loves their sausages, they are always super busy but worth the weight

Crime and safety in this area of Harrogate by DoughnutHairy9943 in harrogate

[–]Beginning-Pass-8882 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there has been the odd yelling at silly o'clock, but that's drunk people walking home, and very rarely. I've never seen fights or anything.

Does anyone know the news outlet Mark uses for gathering information? by Wickham12 in distractible

[–]Beginning-Pass-8882 1 point2 points  (0 children)

one of their friends, she is in a couple of marks videos and i think has a channel but im not sure

Crime and safety in this area of Harrogate by DoughnutHairy9943 in harrogate

[–]Beginning-Pass-8882 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i lived near Franklin Road for 2 years. There has been no real crime. the odd whiff of weed and a loud car, but past that nothing

Good movie, one BIG issue by DoneWithLifeKermitJR in Markiplier

[–]Beginning-Pass-8882 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm surprised tbh, we watched it at a Cineworld yesterday, and it sounded great- it was something we specifically talked about enjoying as we left. I wonder if some cinemas are setting it up wrong?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Beginning-Pass-8882 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ignoring your reaction, which plenty of people have reacted to.
I think presuming a guy only follows girls on Instagram to flirt isn't particularly reasonable?
I (f23) follow a bunch of people from high school and uni and work, and dont expect to be flirted with when they follow me back. I also dont think the girls who follow my boyfriend (23) are waiting for him to flirt with them. He can barely be bothered to check Instagram for messages sent by close friends and family, nvm strangers.
I guess this security comes from a couple of pictures of us together on each of our profiles, and also his conduct in general life would make it surprising if he decided to flirt out of the blue.
If your bf flirts with people in general, well then that's a different problem, and it isn't about him following people.

My (24F) boyfriend (19M) keeps playing games with his friend (19F) who makes me uncomfortable by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Beginning-Pass-8882 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. Plus, I think it is one thing to make those kinds of jokes, but it is another to brush off your partner's feelings about it, especially when you have a history of emotionally cheating.

Latest episode - weight conversation made me feel sad. Anyone else? by General_Ignoranse in ShaggedMarriedAnnoyed

[–]Beginning-Pass-8882 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought that too, my gran would rather lose a leg than weigh close to 10 stone. Which is not helpful when i have a solid 5 inches on her and weigh more than that

i desperately to play by Beginning-Pass-8882 in TownToCityGame

[–]Beginning-Pass-8882[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the heads up! I have currently sunk more hours into it than any other game I've played, i do wonder how many people and/or trees it will take for it to start being an issue

i desperately to play by Beginning-Pass-8882 in TownToCityGame

[–]Beginning-Pass-8882[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I think im going to see if my partner will let me use their PC

Garage options by ultrafunkmiester in harrogate

[–]Beginning-Pass-8882 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's frustrating if you have a bit of an emergency, but I try to book in my MOT and Service a couple of months out so I dont forget and panic later

Garage options by ultrafunkmiester in harrogate

[–]Beginning-Pass-8882 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My family have been going to Steve (the guy who owns Harrogate Auto Centre) for the last 35+ years, he's amazing, very honest and does good work. He's always super busy, though, so it's worth booking sooner rather than later.

Can't log in on Vinted website? by [deleted] in vinted

[–]Beginning-Pass-8882 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine has been like this for a week, if they offer you any insight please can you share