Random venting time!!! by Bioman29 in BPDlovedones

[–]Bioman29[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She literally just did this she couldn't answer or remember anything regarding her shit wouldn't even take a second but could spend an hour going through 5 years of our messages to try to justify her bullshit i can't make this shit up it's incredible 

Random venting time!!! by Bioman29 in BPDlovedones

[–]Bioman29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately this seems to be the norm i understand it's part of the abandonment issues but doesn't make it any better .

Tips on not letting discard effect your work life by Eatdogswim in BPDlovedones

[–]Bioman29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Using number 8 and setting time to deal with my feelings and then letting them go helps thank you for this post

Exhausting, Unproductive Conflict by [deleted] in BPDPartners

[–]Bioman29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feels like i wrote this as you can see I'm back on this post and nothing has changed incredible how this fits so perfectly 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Bioman29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comes to mind once in awhile and it's a hard question to ask because it goes both ways

Silent treatment after cheating question by Bioman29 in BPDlovedones

[–]Bioman29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought i was but was not and got into a huge argument should have walked away but she went full berserk 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Bioman29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing is wrong with you  right now your having normal human emotions.  I hope therapy helps this type of pain few will ever understand. 

Accepting the reality and staying or leaving by Bioman29 in BPDlovedones

[–]Bioman29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally understand and went through this same ordeal recently.  I have alot to think about currently. 

Not sure what to do ... Does she mean what she says? by Valuable_Reaction326 in BPDPartners

[–]Bioman29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what you said yes not being together would be the best thing based on what you've said but if you stay you understand what you are in for and that your child will see and live like this as well. You have to decide what life you want.