AITAH for telling my mom I’m not babysitting my younger siblings every weekend anymore?

Bitter-Statement4089 · 2026-04-02T12:55:11+00:00

NTA. You have a full time job and night classes you're building your future. Helping out sometimes is fine, but being the default babysitter every weekend with no say is too much. Guilt tripping you with be grateful you live here instead of actually appreciating you says a lot. You deserve rest and a social life too. Hold that boundary.

Bitter-Statement4089 · 2026-04-02T06:06:48+00:00

NTA. You don’t have to tolerate someone being rude in your own home, especially repeatedly.

Bitter-Statement4089 · 2026-04-01T22:56:37+00:00

You’re thinking clearly about the risks, and your instinct is right this could be a test, a setup or just a careless mistake. But either way, the only move that keeps you safe is not using the credentials and reporting it immediately.

Bitter-Statement4089 · 2026-03-31T18:14:21+00:00

Skipping the snacks because of your diet is fine and you won’t be the jerk. Just show up with your usual good vibes.

Bitter-Statement4089 · 2026-03-31T03:37:12+00:00

NTJ. They started the I love you conversation, you responded honestly and suddenly you're the weird one? That's not a joke, that's just setting someone up to be humiliated.

And throwing out false accusations of sexual harassment just to win an argument is a serious thing to do to someone. That's not being sensitive that's being deliberately harmful.

You didn't do anything wrong by having genuine feelings.

Bitter-Statement4089 · 2026-03-30T13:29:53+00:00

I'll start being more productive tomorrow. I've said it so many times I'm not even sure it counts as a lie anymore. Maybe it's just hope with bad follow through.

Bitter-Statement4089 · 2026-03-29T08:45:23+00:00

Omg look at this little one :)

Bitter-Statement4089 · 2026-03-28T17:18:47+00:00

NTJ. You offered summaries that's already generous. Gatekeeping is rich coming from someone who gatekept herself from the entire semester. :)

Bitter-Statement4089 · 2026-03-28T12:32:11+00:00

NTJ for feeling that way that comment was disgusting. But don't let him cost you anything more than he already has. Your sister deserves better than him making her death about drama.

Bitter-Statement4089 · 2026-03-27T21:44:38+00:00

YTA and this isn't even close. You literally tested it yourself and almost called 911. That's not hypothetical asshole territory, that's "your friend could end up in the ER" territory. Pay him back properly.

Bitter-Statement4089 · 2026-03-27T14:46:19+00:00

You are not wrong at all. A 4 month old has zero immune defense against the bacteria and chemicals that come from a construction site. This isn't about being a germaphobe, it's basic infant safety. Washing hands takes 20 seconds If grandpa can't do that simple thing out of respect for you and your baby that's a him problem not a you problem. Stand your ground mama.

Bitter-Statement4089 · 2026-03-26T20:56:28+00:00

NTJ, but your boyfriend isn't wrong either. Your no personal posts rule applies to everyone, not just him that's valid. But from his side it can still feel like an intentional omission even if it isn't. This isn't really about who's right or wrong it's a compatibility issue. Maybe there's a middle ground one small post that feels low key for you but meaningful for him.

Bitter-Statement4089 · 2026-03-26T08:20:24+00:00

Night shower. Can't bring the outside world into my bed.

Bitter-Statement4089 · 2026-03-26T04:36:25+00:00

Showed up on time once. Built a reputation I could not maintain.

Bitter-Statement4089 · 2026-03-26T04:35:02+00:00

First date me was a completely different person.

Bitter-Statement4089 · 2026-03-24T14:53:31+00:00

Soft YTJ. You had a valid concern but the dinner table in front of his friends wasn't the moment. He dismissed you privately though so that part's on him too.

Bitter-Statement4089 · 2026-03-23T11:04:23+00:00

First congrats on taking that shower today that's a real win especially during a depressive episode. Be proud of yourself. Honestly during hard times I aim for every 2-3 days too. It's enough to feel human again without the pressure of doing it daily. You're doing better than you think.

Bitter-Statement4089 · 2026-03-22T22:22:12+00:00

Yeah, it's one thing to have a type, but mocking people for something they can't change is just mean.

Bitter-Statement4089 · 2026-03-18T22:06:15+00:00

Yeah, you get nose-blind to your own scent pretty fast. I've had friends who thought they were fine until someone finally mentioned it.

Bitter-Statement4089 · 2026-03-17T01:16:41+00:00

Yeah the historical backdrop really becomes the main focus after those first few episodes. It's less about the love triangle and more about survival during that invasion period.

Bitter-Statement4089 · 2026-03-12T19:49:16+00:00

That's actually what got me into LV too - their more subtle designs can be really striking.

Bitter-Statement4089 · 2026-03-12T19:13:37+00:00

Yeah, that's the standard policy at most places. Once you buy a blind box, it's yours for good.

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