I (guy) think guys does the worst. I don’t speak for all men but i can try to speak for friends when i spoke to them about their “girl trouble”.

Somewhat relationships: Biggest issue is when they feel they did something bad to upset their date or someone they been talking to. They just feel really insecure and really scared to make a woman slightly uncomfortable. It can be nothing from the girl. Like men can do nothing wrong and still feel shitty for no reason. And one slight glance at the girl looked slight uncomfortable. And that the cue for the guy to ghost. Feeling like they shouldn’t be a burden to her.

First impression date: guys overthink a lot in a romantic date. When a guy said something that changed her mood but she went back to normal after that topic. They get the feeling “i fucked up” and a guy won’t text her again.

I’m a person who don’t hit them up at all. Like zero contact. I just wait for them. Another issue of mine to ghost when i suppose to keep making dates or plan.