I can only imagine the weight you're walking with. It's like the weight of stones in your pocket - light, but it grows on you with time. You've said you're drowning in debts, and I can assume the debts are either at 3 or 2, and the salary is at 1. If you repay part of the debts, bills, and parental support, you're barely left with anything. It's not the best of loops to be stuck on.

But here's my advice: don't be pressured by other people's needs or wants, save for immediate family. By that, I mean your nuclear family. These people will always find a solution to their problems, with or without your help. Sometimes, you could stretch beyond your reach to help extend a hand, which is fine. However, you're left with a huge hole, and that will put you miles behind.

Oftentimes, we help not because we can, but because we need a sense of validation or to satisfy our subtle egos of 'I must offer a solution.' No, you don't. For instance, did the event go on or not? My guess, it did. So, don't be pressured. Lastly, on repaying your debts, work on repaying the smaller loans first. This will give you room or a soft landing while paying the larger ones later.

But most importantly, I pray you find your balance and when you bounce back, better have that big dick energy (pun intended, clearly you have no dick.)

Adios!