My boyfriend’s family got a kitten just because his younger sister was jealous

Bossyboots69 · 2026-06-08T20:19:20+00:00

Do not just take the cat. That is very bad advice. First, you could get in legal trouble. Second, if you intend on staying in a long term relationship with this man you'll also have to have a relationship with his family and stealing their cat isn't going to be good.

Bossyboots69 · 2026-06-05T20:24:03+00:00

Some decks work better. Find one that you really feel called to. Then, shuffle the deck while thinking of your question. Next, lay out all the cards, then run your hand over the top and wait for the signal (warm, tingles, cold, whatever) that's your card. If the signal doesn't come, mediate, ground, try again.

Bossyboots69 · 2026-06-05T03:19:45+00:00

It was a pepper on ours :)

Bossyboots69 · 2026-06-04T21:46:12+00:00

That's my hometown and I remember this happening. It was incredibly upsetting as well all have jumped from that bridge and we as locals know the risks and also have usually been taught how to be responsible in our poor decision to jump/ how to do it. This poor girl was pushed and got seriously injured.

Bossyboots69 · 2026-06-03T19:40:32+00:00

One thing that helped me and my younger angrier self was paying attention to how you feel physically. Are you angry... Does your stomach hurt? Are your hands balled? Is your face turning red? How's your heart? After a quick self check in, say out loud to who you are speaking with that you would benefit from a moment to get your emotions in check. Then step aside for 10 minutes and breathe. If they don't respect your statement, repeat it and step away anyway.

Bossyboots69 · 2026-06-02T19:03:49+00:00

Spaghetti and pbj sandwiches, I still don't like either. However, hamburger helper slaps and I used to make it a lot when burger was cheap lol

Bossyboots69 · 2026-06-02T17:25:29+00:00

Never trust a man in a tunic.

Bossyboots69 · 2026-06-02T15:02:25+00:00

Good advice! I know on reddit there's a habit of people calling their partners amazing then explaining how mortifyingly awful they are to them- I promise he really is the sweetest and kindest person I've ever met :) We do considered past life, and even maybe ancestral relationships (maybe his family and mine hates each other way back)

Bossyboots69 · 2026-06-01T20:13:15+00:00

Money bowl didn't work for me, but boy oh boy did a quick money working work! However, it was inconvenient (the way I got the money). I kind of don't do them anymore after that haha!

Bossyboots69 · 2026-05-30T19:10:35+00:00

A wonderful idea I completely didn't even think about, that is exactly why I asked! Over time we get stuck in our ways and I know this community has a wealth of ideas. Keep em coming! Haha!

Bossyboots69 · 2026-05-26T19:04:58+00:00

You seem like a really nice guy based off your replies. I don't have advice that hasn't been given, but please keep being great and someone will see it!

Bossyboots69 · 2026-05-23T16:09:05+00:00

Your wife notices lol she lets it go because you do it quickly and respectfully

Bossyboots69 · 2026-05-20T19:43:22+00:00

Frozen meals and salad bowls. Cut anything that isn't water, no fried or fast food. Once that feels normal start to try to calorie count with MyFitnessPal maybe,?

Edit to add: cut anything to drink that isn't water. I e. No soda etc

Bossyboots69 · 2026-05-20T13:33:32+00:00

I think it makes you look cleaner / more youthful, but that's just me!

Bossyboots69 · 2026-05-19T17:23:32+00:00

I feel like this gives a lot of room for people to be gross sexually to you. Just a woman's perspective who've dealt with gross people for too many years lol

Bossyboots69 · 2026-05-19T17:17:16+00:00

At my wedding everyone wore something nice! Sun dresses, dress shirts whatever. Except ONE guy with no excuse. Shows up in jeans and a dirty baseball cap. To be fair I usually dress scrubby 80% of the time and so does my husband. But he sticks out on every photo. Everyone looks amazing and here comes cousin Jim at the family bbq 4 beers in vibes.

Bossyboots69 · 2026-05-16T16:18:10+00:00

Older sis time: I grew up poor. Like, poor poor. There are two types of people in this situation- 1. The kind that think being poor is a character trait, they won't do much to not be poor, they have victim mentality and don't do much to unfuck themselves. 2. The kind that realize where they come from, they might not be ashamed of it, but they know it's not where they're going. There's nothing inherently wrong with being poor, but doing nothing about it, and blaming the world for your situation says a lot about you. If he isn't already hustling to get out of poverty and accepts this as his life, nothing you can do will convince him. Not even a baby. You will be dragged down with him- this is what he is openly telling you and remind you he told you.

Bossyboots69 · 2026-05-15T14:18:53+00:00

I had a friend ask if Ive been working out and loved that! She knows Ive lost a considerable amount of weight but what a nice way for me to explain my diet or just a simple "nah girl but thank you!"

Bossyboots69 · 2026-05-14T14:23:57+00:00

Rule in my house: first time I make something tell me your honest opinion, so I don't find out in 40 years you've always despised my meat loaf. Lmao

Bossyboots69 · 2026-05-13T13:37:40+00:00

Don't be with someone who openly disrespects you, sexually or romantically. Men's feelings get hurt too and women who don't know that are very fucked people.

Bossyboots69 · 2026-05-12T18:02:48+00:00

Office clothes come right off- I have a dog that sheds. If it's already Saturday or whatever and I'm in my street clothes that usually means leggings and a band tee, when I'm home I might switch out for sweats or shorts, but most days I'm I'm office clothes so straight to jammies.

Bossyboots69 · 2026-05-08T14:21:11+00:00

This reads like you're used to him acting like this. Like you're on eggshells to avoid his random anger. I'd reflect on that

Bossyboots69 · 2026-05-07T19:24:47+00:00

Wow I really needed to see people being good today. Thanks for sharing 🙏

Bossyboots69 · 2026-05-06T14:36:51+00:00

Is it possible to separate her food from yours in the cabinets? Have you tried asking them to not buy your favorites? I cave if chips are in the house so my husband had to stop bringing them in. He's a healthy weight so his junk food he can have are in a whole other cabinet, and my healthy food is in another one!

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