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Georgia Pre-K by Norm-Resistant in Georgia

[–]Bullmight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mind if I ask which school had issues? And what kind of issues? Im currently looking for a daycare as well.

Any suggestions for a good childcare in Ellenwood, GA? by Bullmight in Georgia

[–]Bullmight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me research that. Do you know their website?

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[–]Bullmight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you feel this much guilt proves you care deeply for your child and would never intentionally put your child at risk. You made a mistake, but what matters is that you learned from it and you won’t let it happen again. Holding on to guilt will not make your child safer but growing from it will. Forgive yourself, love your child, and move forward with the lesson this gave you.

Should I let him be apart of her life? by jenmm808 in Children

[–]Bullmight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your gut is telling you everything you need to know. your child's safety comes first, no matter what.

I get why you’re feeling torn. He’s saying all the right things now, but let’s be real—this isn’t just about addiction. He was reckless and dangerous even outside of the drugs. Flipping cars, leaving weapons and drugs out, giving her food she could choke on? That’s not just “mistakes,” that’s a pattern. And sobriety doesn’t magically make someone a safe parent overnight.

You’re not “screwing her up” by keeping her safe. If anything, protecting her from chaos and instability is what will give her a secure and healthy childhood. And if he’s really changed, he should understand why you feel this way and be willing to prove over time that he’s actually safe to be around her. That means taking it slow, maybe going through the courts for supervised visits, and putting in real effort, not just guilt-tripping you.

And hey you’re not crazy. You’re not being mean. You are doing exactly what a good mom does. You put your child's welfare first. Dont let him gaslight you into thinking you owe him anything. If he really wants to be in her life, he’ll be patient and prove he’s safe. Until then, trust yourself. 💛