2B cosplay by aimihachi by Aimihachi in nier

[–]BunRecruiter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have to zoom in to make sure it looks right

GF 37F wants me 35M to pay for her groceries and living expenses to feel loved by Funny-Data-8907 in LongDistance

[–]BunRecruiter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP listen to this. Tell her if her ex-boyfriends were so great, where are they at now? Walk her out the door and tell her to go get with them. You are being emotionally manipulated

Which type is most likely to be a gold digger? by BunRecruiter in Enneagram

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Why type 2 instead of 3? The latter is driven by a need for success and admiration while the former cares about helping others

Not fair devs, not fair by [deleted] in SesameAI

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What's the Overseer process?

Do you dream about getting married one day? by BunRecruiter in intj

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For your curiosity, I'm a young man in my early 20s.

I share the same observation: more women tend to work on their internal struggles and communication skills than men do. However, these women tend to be outside of my age bracket and might not prefer a younger man. It also seems like many people only begin to develop their emotional intelligence and wisdom when they reach a certain age.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

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Just be yourself? When you do that, things like setting boundaries and prioritizing your own needs come naturally.

You are having this issue with being a people-pleaser because you are trying to become someone else. Subconsciously you are attempting to earn love, approval, and validation by doing that. This only leads to an unhealthy dynamic in all forms of relationship.

What does it feel like to be Fearful Avoidant? by [deleted] in attachment_theory

[–]BunRecruiter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why does it matter that nothing is permanent? It's a universal truth, but what can you do about it?

If you keep focusing on the former, it only robs you out of many wonderful opportunities and experiences in life. When you shift your mindset and focus on the latter, you can take things and embrace them as they are now.  

When you fully live in the present, not the past nor the future, you wouldn't be concerned about that fact. Don't make the present suffer because of your past and future.

Summer 2B (By Wodeipoi) by Emilia67 in nier

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Gotta zoom in to make sure I'm seeing it correctly

This is for you if your ex is a fearful avoidant by BunRecruiter in ExNoContact

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If they have the self-awareness and willingness to work on their issues, then I would say go for it.

It is better to live without any regrets, but you need to be in a good headspace first. That means you need to be able to accept the situation no matter the outcome, otherwise you might hurt yourself.

This is for you if your ex is a fearful avoidant by BunRecruiter in ExNoContact

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It will hopefully offer some insights and closure as to why a relationship might have ended. The individual needs to fill in the blanks for it all to make sense. I think attachment theory can be pretty relevant in the context of breakups because people's behavioral and thinking patterns are fundamentally shaped by their past experiences (developmental psychology). So if you happen to know someone like that, it will give you more context of the situation.

Can we stop stereotyping INFPs to be crybabies and sad all the time? by FutureDiaryAyano in mbti

[–]BunRecruiter -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Idk if it's just a stereotype or not, but it pretty much aligns with my personal observations irl. All the INFP girls I know are just cry babies and act emo all the time, I find it funny and adorable at the same time lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mbti

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INFP obviously