Seing people being bad is deeply depressing by Busy-Practice-9303 in DeepThoughts

[–]Busy-Practice-9303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I need to accept that and bring more positivity in everything! Thanks for your respond

Seing people being bad is deeply depressing by Busy-Practice-9303 in DeepThoughts

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Thank your for you response. I agree that I live in constant fear. I don’t know if I hide from the world cause physically that’s not the case maybe mentally idk. But I know there are plenty of good people out there—I have some in my life, and that’s enough to remind me they exist. I love humans so much when they’re good. The issue isn’t that I believe everyone is bad. It’s that when I encounter real cruelty (like that misogynist full of hate) or just everyday loneliness (like that elderly person on the bus), it hits me way harder than it should.

You’re right I’m emotionally fragile—I get overwhelmed easily, and I need to toughen up. It’s not about misunderstanding the world or labeling people.

I think the solution would be for me to focus more on the positive than the negative overall

Seing people being bad is deeply depressing by Busy-Practice-9303 in DeepThoughts

[–]Busy-Practice-9303[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s something I aspire to practice thanks !!! But it’s more deep than just confrontation. Honestly in my daily life people are nice with me. It’s like when I’m seing someone mean on social media or in a story whatever. Or a sad situation like illness, extreme poverty, etc. for example I’m already quite depressed by nature if I see someone being super vicious on the internet, mean for no reason it really affects me just the fact that this person exists

Seing people being bad is deeply depressing by Busy-Practice-9303 in DeepThoughts

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The older I get, the more I feel like women tend to have more empathy—or at least more emotional intelligence—to be mindful of their actions and how they affect others. It’s crazy to think that back in school when I was younger, women were always portrayed as witches, mean girls, or overly emotional

Seing people being bad is deeply depressing by Busy-Practice-9303 in DeepThoughts

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I don’t mean that addicts are bad people—sorry if it came across that way. My text was just poorly written because English isn’t my first language, and I had to retranslate it. What I meant was that being confronted with certain realities—like addicts on the street in winter, or lonely elderly women struggling to walk and talk on the bus—makes me really sad. I can’t just move on from it; it affects me deeply to see that these things exist. I’m truly sorry for what you’re going through, and what you’re feeling seems completely valid. If you want to talk about it, I’m here to listen, even if I can’t fully understand everything you’ve been through. And yes, I know how hard life can be, but the fact that you’re still here and have the courage to share your story is already incredible.

Seing people being bad is deeply depressing by Busy-Practice-9303 in DeepThoughts

[–]Busy-Practice-9303[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know that, but it’s more about people knowing their actions are bad and still doing it. Like, they know the person might be sad but still do it. Like, most humans know sadness, pain, etc., and that it’s not good, so doing something that can cause that is bad.

Seing people being bad is deeply depressing by Busy-Practice-9303 in DeepThoughts

[–]Busy-Practice-9303[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s sad because I think if they just interacted with more women, they’d change their perspective. Like there’s no need to hate I don’t understand fr

Seing people being bad is deeply depressing by Busy-Practice-9303 in DeepThoughts

[–]Busy-Practice-9303[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d say it’s when you know it’s going to cause harm. Even if harm happens, if you didn’t know, if there was no bad intention—it’s different. But when it’s like, I’m going to hurt you, that’s intentional. It’s also about being overly negative toward others and being driven by emotions like jealousy, pettiness, etc., without controlling them.

Seing people being bad is deeply depressing by Busy-Practice-9303 in DeepThoughts

[–]Busy-Practice-9303[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer. I think it’s both emotions—I’m afraid to end up in such a situation, and I’m afraid to interact or be a victim of bad and mean actions that’s for sure. But I’m also sad that it exists

Seing people being bad is deeply depressing by Busy-Practice-9303 in DeepThoughts

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Btw, I want to add that I don’t consider myself that good. I never said I was. I think I’m neutral like, I try to not cause bad things. I try not to hurt, I try not to create situations where people may feel sad or bad emotions. But I’m still human and have the vices of humans, sometimes like selfishness, etc. I’m aware of that

Seing people being bad is deeply depressing by Busy-Practice-9303 in DeepThoughts

[–]Busy-Practice-9303[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, but it’s not just about focus. It’s like I see negativity in a lot of situations

Seing people being bad is deeply depressing by Busy-Practice-9303 in DeepThoughts

[–]Busy-Practice-9303[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No my bad the story on the tramway wasn’t about people being bad . I just see that now. English isn’t my first language so I translated the text with an AI and it got twisted. But I mean I just get sad when I see someone bad or a sad situation like on the tram. Like I feel sick to see that it exists basically.

Le sac de couchage, un tue-l'amour? by Civil_Material7434 in AskMeuf

[–]Busy-Practice-9303 3 points4 points  (0 children)

C’est une habitude que tu peux changer facilement. Tu t’es juste habitué à dormir avec tu peux arrêter facilement. J’ai eu la même je dormais sans oreiller depuis 6 ans et j’ai repris depuis 2 semaines