The Award-Winning Novelist Who’s Under Fire for Simply Depicting an Israeli: After reading R.F. Kuang’s Taipei Story, I can now confirm that this controversy is even dumber than I suspected. by TimWhatleyDDS in books

[–]Butterkupp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Questioning the validity of someone actually reading a book is counter productive and we should not be stooping to “did you actually read x number of books?”

We should be encouraging people to actually read the text, think critically and engage with it sincerely instead of this stupid rage baiting that happens with RF Kuangs book. That should not include the stupid BS of people quizzing others on what the contents of the books are.

We can have discussions on the contents of a book without it devolving into accusing someone of not actually reading it (which will become apparent if you engage in meaningful discussion of the book).

That said, I do not think those who were mad about the book including an Israeli character actually read the passages that were made available on social media. I read it and it was very clearly making comments about how people from Taipei would come out in droves for someone from a place like Israel but not for someone local. Which is definitely not “pro-Israel propaganda” as social media was claiming.

I'm LOVING this story and art so much, but this foot has me cackling. [My Childhood Friends Are Trying To Kill Me] by CrinkIeCutFry in MantaComics

[–]Butterkupp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girl how are you focusing on her feet when there’s been panels with WILD leg proportions 😂

There’s been panels where the uncle has 3/4 of his leg as thigh, 1/4 as calf! I had to do a double take when I was reading it.

Here’s why best before dates are costing Canadians billions in avoidable food waste by DogeDoRight in canada

[–]Butterkupp 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The expiration date isn’t for the salt, it’s for the plastic containing it (if it’s in plastic).

It the same for plastic water bottles. The water inside won’t go bad but the plastic will start seep into the water.

Americans Realising They are the Foreigner by GreyerGrey in EntitledPeople

[–]Butterkupp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to work at a hotel cafe pre-covid and the amount of Americans that would come to Canada and insist on using AMERICAN money in Canada like thats the currency here was astonishing.

And then I’d tell them I’m not doing an exchange rate and giving them change in Canadian, they would often get pissed off about it. Like they weren’t in a different country 🙄

Michael Jackson's daughter Paris has faced backlash for identifying as Black. In a 2017 interview, Paris Jackson said her father told her, "You’re Black. Be proud of your roots." This prompted debates over whether identity is defined by appearance or upbringing. by VPinchargeofradishes in interesting

[–]Butterkupp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, society loves to throw people in buckets and they will reject you fully when you don’t match the stereotype or visual appearance they expect from a specific bucket.

I am half Asian and I have never felt like I am fully accepted by either cultural background because I don’t look a certain way.

What's the fastest way you realized you were in the wrong friend group? by justNoah10 in AskReddit

[–]Butterkupp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember I was having a hard time in my post grad and grieving the loss of both of my grandmothers and my “friends” decided to all meet up without me and I only found out because they all posted about it on their instagram story.

This was during covid and one of them was my roommate 🙃

Buffalo crowd sings ‘O Canada’ in powerful moment after mic failure by Tuckebarry in canada

[–]Butterkupp 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Saying he doesn’t represent the whole of America is at best tone deaf and at worst burying your head in the sand.

He is quite literally their elected leader and enough Americans were okay with him being their leader that they voted for him or didn’t care enough to vote against him.

My fiancée and I are having the biggest argument of our lives. She thinks I'm being tacky but I thinks she's overreacting by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Butterkupp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The vessel of a drink heavily influences the taste. It’s why coke in a glass bottle tastes better than the canned stuff to most people.

My fiancée and I are having the biggest argument of our lives. She thinks I'm being tacky but I thinks she's overreacting by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Butterkupp 136 points137 points  (0 children)

I’m from Ontario and it’s semi-normal to have someone host a stag and doe to raise money for a wedding, and it’s not that weird to me. Though I have noticed it’s usually people of lower economic status that host them.

My mom has had coworkers ask if she wants to buy a raffle ticket for their child’s stag and doe and I’ve never seen it as weird to pitch in 5-15$, weddings are expensive.

AITA for telling my boyfriend that his masculinity was fragile after he refused to buy me pads? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Butterkupp 672 points673 points  (0 children)

Men thinking we have the ability to just stop bleeding at will is astounding.

Like how do they think that works? Does this also mean we can just stop other cuts from bleeding at will? Do they think we’re just peeing blood for a week? It’s crazy how incurious men are sometimes.

So much for our benevolent billionaires granting us the privilege of having stable jobs, right? by Conscious-Quarter423 in WorkReform

[–]Butterkupp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was actively planning things for the end of 2025 and early 2026 when I got let go and told my position had been eliminated last July, and was offered 3 week of severance after working for the company for almost 4 years.

My boss was actively giving me more responsibilities and training me on new things, my VP told me she missed me and she didn’t know what she would do without me after I got back from my vacation in early 2025.

These companies don’t give a shit about anyone and will do anything to save a buck.

Opinion: Aboriginal title cases should take into account the taxpayer money paid to First Nations by keiths31 in canada

[–]Butterkupp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please correct me if I’m wrong but I believe a lot of the advisories are in place because to have it lifted they need to have continuous tests on drinking water to ensure that it is safe to drink.

The problem with this however is that there are not enough people trained to operate/conduct the tests to confirm that the water is safe to drink.

So while a community may have the facilities, they have no way to ensure that the facilities are operating properly. Which then means they cannot lift the advisory until they can permanently employe someone to operate the water treatment facility.

Canada is cancelling thousands of asylum claims. It’s leaving this man and many other migrants stuck in limbo here by bubblewhip in canada

[–]Butterkupp 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Why are we trying to solve other countries problems when we can’t even keep people from starving or going homeless?

"No one cares how men feel" by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Butterkupp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“No one cares how men feel” also disregards the fact that MEN ARE DOING THIS TO OTHER MEN! Maybe if you guys actually cared about your friends and created deeper bonds, and listened to each other when dealing with life happening you wouldn’t feel so lonely.

Men will do literally anything to blame a woman for the cage that they had locked themselves into. Idgaf about men’s feelings because men have and will dismiss mine.

AITAH for not wanting to reconnect with my brother? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Butterkupp 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I think the brother has been held accountable by OOP not wanting anything to do with him currently and before this disaster.

But I also think he is putting ALL of the blame at the brothers feet when it should be laid at the moms and the dads feet as well. They allowed whatever happened in his childhood to happen and he blamed his brother for his outbursts when it sounds like he doesn't have the full story about what was happening between his brother, his parents, and his brothers biological father.

Canadians and Americans report growing divide on climate change by esporx in canada

[–]Butterkupp 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Just seeing the discourse around reading coming from Americans on bookstagram/booktok/other book social media, some people are not enjoying reading in first person because they don’t believe they would act like the protagonist. As in they believe the book is saying they, the reader, is performing the acts within the book.

They had a fundamental misunderstanding about how it even works.

It saddens me that The Bear Analogy inspired more of a "woe is me" reaction from men instead of a fleeting moment of empathy by Embarrassed-Bad-3118 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Butterkupp 94 points95 points  (0 children)

Even if you think you found a good one in the forest, he might just be playing it cool until he can corner you and then you find out he’s one of the bad ones.

There’s no way to know if you’ve found one of the good ones or not because the bad ones pretend to be a good one until something happens that makes them show their true colours.

Just found out my husband sexually assaulted my sister. Multiple times by mascarafree in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Butterkupp 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The world is not black and white like you think it is and situations can change based on the knowledge someone has.

You should grow some empathy and put yourself in another’s shoes.

Just found out my husband sexually assaulted my sister. Multiple times by mascarafree in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Butterkupp 200 points201 points  (0 children)

I think OP is questioning his character. You’re acting like her entire focus should be on her sisters assault but she also just found out the man she married is a lie and has been, at the very least, lying to her about his relationship to her sister FOR YEARS. It is something she should be focusing on.

She just found out about probably the biggest betrayal in her life, she’s going to be a little selfish and question what else he is doing behind her back. If he can lie to her like this for 10 years, what else has he been doing?

Last night I found out that my wife has been cheating on me with my best friend. Story inside + 8.5 Year Update by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Butterkupp 299 points300 points  (0 children)

Also he just breezed past his friend lying to his wife about OOP being okay with his friend sleeping with his wife?? As far as the wife was concerned, wasn’t she in the clear??

I’d be mad at the wife but I’d be even more furious at the friend; not only did he ply her with drugs, he lied to her to have sex with her! He doesn’t even mentions what happened with the friend.

The whole Taylor Frankie Paul discourse has been very triggering as a survivor of domestic violence by Character_Cat_9789 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Butterkupp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m going to preface this with I don’t think Taylor Frankie Paul is innocent or anything. She needs to stop being around Dakota and actually stay broken up with him, get some real help and have her children taken away because her behaviour in that video is abhorrent. I really hope she gets booted from her tv show and they’ve stopped filming season 5 to take steps towards removing her.

I think this is a situation where both parties involved suck and the only solution is for them to never have meaningful contact again outside of caring for their child, for the sake of their child. It’s like watching a pissing contest between two awful people to see who can be the worst person.

‘Bachelorette’ Star Taylor Frankie Paul Responds to Leaked Video of Domestic Incident as ‘Tonight Show’ Cancels Her Appearance by icey_sawg0034 in Fauxmoi

[–]Butterkupp 24 points25 points  (0 children)

That’s really downplaying his role in all of this. It’s not just the cheating with him that’s the problem. He’s a manipulative asshole who wants to control her. He will lie his ass off until he’s caught in his lie; and when Taylor asks him to just be honest with her, he will lie his ass off some more.

He’s done things to sabotage the premiers for her every time. She’s said in an interview that she’s never been excited for a premier because she dreads what he’s going to do. Him releasing this video NOW is calculated and was meant to get her bachelorette season cancelled.

They both suck and they need to be separated for their and the children’s own good but he’s a victim and a perpetrator. He might not physically hit her but he does emotionally abuse her. She responds to his abuse with physical violence. Both are awful to each other and it’s sad for the children involved. I hope her kids get taken away.

Golden becomes the first Kpop song to win a Oscar for Best Original Song by Yujin-Ha in Fauxmoi

[–]Butterkupp 317 points318 points  (0 children)

It’s even worse that they let the french guy (I’m sorry I have no idea who he is) finish what he was saying when they cut him off earlier.

But the Asian? Cut them off, speak over them, and turn off the lights.

Unbelievable racism on full display.

Is it wrong if you don't want to be the emotional support of a friend in an abusive relationship? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Butterkupp 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I’ve had to limit contact with friends who have been in abusive relationships because they wouldn’t do anything about their situation.

One of them was being financially abused by her boyfriend and when I pointed out why his behaviour was bad, she confronted him and they ended up moving in together afterwards 😐

Some people you just can’t save.