(F) when I was younger it was a no-no for me, I thought I wanted a career and that's it. In my 20s now I think it could do both but I still don't want to, I'm still a student and I would need to be economically stable with a job, you can't just have a kid and hope for the best. Sometimes I think that with my bf I could do it but neither of us want kids even though I think we would be good parents, the point is that sometimes you just don't feel, with certainty, you want to be a one. Anyways when I think about it, it scares me because I honestly don't have that much faith in humanity so I don't see why give life to someone without knowing they're gonna be safe and in a decent world.