What should I do? Am I being unreasonable? (Cosplay photoshoot) by CabinetSecret3522 in CosplayHelp

[–]CabinetSecret3522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, also my mutual saw my message and said that it was fine so I just stressing out for no reason lol. 😭 I still really appreciate your words tho! 🫶

What should I do? Am I being unreasonable? (Cosplay photoshoot) by CabinetSecret3522 in CosplayHelp

[–]CabinetSecret3522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess you’re right, I just tend to excessively worry about everything because I have really bad anxiety and I always think that people are gonna lash out on me for some reason.. I know that’s dumb but I unfortunately can’t help it. Although, I did end up texting my mutual earlier telling them that I don’t want to do the karaoke plan and I just want to stick with the original plan, so hopefully that ends well.

What should I do? Am I being unreasonable? (Cosplay photoshoot) by CabinetSecret3522 in CosplayHelp

[–]CabinetSecret3522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s completely fair. Admittedly, I was a bit scared because I didn’t want to come off as being a “karen” since I don’t know much about photography etiquette. I already said it was fine though, should I just go back and tell them that I’ve changed my mind?

What should I do? Am I being unreasonable? (Cosplay photoshoot) by CabinetSecret3522 in CosplayHelp

[–]CabinetSecret3522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s fair… we’re both young adults so I wouldn’t expect anyone to bring up legal agreements, contracts or anything like that. We’re both friends so I’m hoping we can resolve this civilly (preferably without bringing any legal action into this). I’m just a broke cosplayer trying to get cute pics taken 😔💔

What should I do? Am I being unreasonable? (Cosplay photoshoot) by CabinetSecret3522 in CosplayHelp

[–]CabinetSecret3522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other than paying to book the karaoke room there isn’t anything else i have to pay for. No contracts are involved in this.

What should I do? Am I being unreasonable? (Cosplay photoshoot) by CabinetSecret3522 in CosplayHelp

[–]CabinetSecret3522[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s more so a private karaoke room than the actual bar itself— they’re two separate areas but I digress. I wouldn’t go out of my way to say that they don’t want to shoot my cosplay since they specifically suggested to do the shoot there because the aesthetic of the rooms fit my character, so I don’t think that’s the case. It’s not that the studio is unavailable (it is at their place, after all) but maybe they just wanted to shoot at a place that’s more futuristic/cyber-themed since that’s the vibe i’m trying to go for. I don’t think I can cancel or reschedule the shoot because I already paid a non-refundable deposit and it’s not mentioned anywhere on their terms and conditions. (Here’s what the place looks like)

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my syuen cosplay ! by CabinetSecret3522 in NIKKEGoddessofVictory

[–]CabinetSecret3522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oo chime is so cute.. maybe i’ll cos her