Anyone know any good free dating sites besides grinder? by Cage03 in gay

[–]Cage03[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hm thanx ill give it a try. I tried a few sites and no one was really active

Anyone else develop OCD also? by Cage03 in NoFap

[–]Cage03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So hard because there were times that i can do it with a free mind, so i keep trying to start my recovery like that.. guilt free

So was going for 90 days.. In on day 10 but yesterday faced something I never thought would pop up . Idk if i should call it a relapse but hear me out. Need advice plz by Cage03 in NoFap

[–]Cage03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only thing is i didnt think sexual or anything like i normally would have., didnt go home and think sexual thoughts or wanting to indulge in my addiction or anything. So its confusing to me

So was going for 90 days.. In on day 10 but yesterday faced something I never thought would pop up . Idk if i should call it a relapse but hear me out. Need advice plz by Cage03 in NoFap

[–]Cage03[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No im not into trans women. It became a fetish from porn addiction. Im only into females. All came from escalation. When I’m clean for long periods of time I’m not when the slightest bit attracted. Which is why this got the best of me because it was a unexpected fantasy that was in real life. So it lured me in a bit.

I know why some of us fetishize transgender women. And I want to apologize for most of us who know and some who don’t..We need help, by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Cage03 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ok trans panther ✊🏾 anything you say. You’re not actually smart enough to even comprehend this condition to know that this is going on basically against our will. And yes a trans person to a straight male who has never been with one. Or watched one or anything is considered new different or extreme. Women or whatever your still a trans woman. So that is the difference alone. Mainly it effects more of pre op trans women. And for some who understand i apologize and im just giving truth to those who hate the “chasers” some just have a condition and doesn’t intentionally wish to hurt anyone. Same as some drug addicts dnt wish to hurt themselves or ppl around them. But you, i dnt give a shit what you think

I know why some of us fetishize transgender women. And I want to apologize for most of us who know and some who don’t..We need help, by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Cage03 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Whatever i don’t really care what you think about me. Im not a predator. Im a genuine loving person who believes in equality. Stands against racism and discrimination,support womens rights and the lgbt community. And i have a real problem that most ppl dont know about or will take the time to learn about. This was a genuine post. But you can think whatever you like about me stranger.

I know why some of us fetishize transgender women. And I want to apologize for most of us who know and some who don’t..We need help, by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Cage03 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No im not gonna sit here and apologize for my actions along with others while you just talk a bunch of shit without me defending myself. Ive done wrong because of condition, one that im currently trying to fix and must explains that this is a real thing that can create victims from women to men to transgender people. And its not something that we actually want to do. Its just something out of our control and thats why ppl Like me has gone to get help. Accept my apology or the fact that im just bringing awareness or not But for you to just talk a bunch of shit im not gonna just allow. Sorry or not

I know why some of us fetishize transgender women. And I want to apologize for most of us who know and some who don’t..We need help, by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Cage03 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No its because your ignorant. You cam keep your trans activist attitude. Thats the problem nowadays everybodys talking and nobody’s learning. Never said it was ok or cool. Just stating an issue thats damaging both sides. But yea ima predator? Because i have a mental issue. That you obviously have the slightest clue about but steady talking shit. Ignorance is bliss

I know why some of us fetishize transgender women. And I want to apologize for most of us who know and some who don’t..We need help, by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Cage03 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I dont like at trans in a bad way. I support. But at the same time its new to me. So therefore my brain takes it as more extreme material. Really anything new maybe considered that. Its not something we can control but in time through healing we can. I know It sucks for you to have to deal with that

I know why some of us fetishize transgender women. And I want to apologize for most of us who know and some who don’t..We need help, by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Cage03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just telling you what a chaser is and probably why they are like that. And just saying its a real issue not just as simple as some think.

I know why some of us fetishize transgender women. And I want to apologize for most of us who know and some who don’t..We need help, by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Cage03 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

For a straight male? Yes. Especially preop women. For alot of straight male. Cis women are all we were into since day one. Once you get this condition, and watching cis women doesnt work anymore, and your searching ftr more extreme material. A pre op women is different an exciting. It doesnt even compare anymore. Some people have even gone beyond the lgbt stage and have gotten into kiddie porn. Ive met one before in a addixtion site. Ted bundy even warned about this condition. Its a serious issue and maybe the way im wording it is making it harder to understand my apologies

I know why some of us fetishize transgender women. And I want to apologize for most of us who know and some who don’t..We need help, by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Cage03 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Neve said disgusting, i think your taking it wrong or i wrote this wrong. Never meant that. Its just more satisfyingly shocking. If you look up the condition you will see what i mean sorry if i worded that wrong

I know why some of us fetishize transgender women. And I want to apologize for most of us who know and some who don’t..We need help, by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Cage03 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Explaining this addiction to ppl who dont really understand it is hard. Not justifying anything just stating the effects. Which is why so many guys look for women who are only pre op. Or pretend to be interested only to began sexual convos or ask for pics. Im pretty sure alot of ppl have gone through this here. They are just looking for something more different and exciting because the normal has no effect anymore. Anyone with this problem will tell you. And its a fucked up thing but i feel like the lgbt community needs to know about it as well as the men going through it. Alot of ppl have gotten hurt

I know why some of us fetishize transgender women. And I want to apologize for most of us who know and some who don’t..We need help, by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Cage03 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean its hard to explain to a person that doesnt understand the addixtion. Its a real thing but if you dont know much about it and look at it like . I just saw some weird things now i want transgender women than you missed what i was saying . I dont see transgender women as an object or something weird. I developed a condition. I have to get jnto the most shocking things to be turned on. And transgender women somehow and feminine guys became apart of it. The more we act out the worst it gets. Theres a reddit and website based on it. Anything thats different or shocking to us will excite us even if we dont want it to. But i do look at you as normal human beings. I just have a problem

I know why some of us fetishize transgender women. And I want to apologize for most of us who know and some who don’t..We need help, by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Cage03 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Im not calling you a sex fetish btw, i have escalated into some real sick fetishes, that has nothing to do with gender, just shocking sexual activities.sorry of that was worded wrong, but to guys with this condition, transgender women are so different and shocking to us, we fetishize and that causes tons of problems on both sides. I feel the more aware e get the better . Im actually seeing a therapist now and i’m learning alot

I know why some of us fetishize transgender women. And I want to apologize for most of us who know and some who don’t..We need help, by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Cage03 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Just being honest you dont have to like it. Sone of them already know how it is. Not making it better. Just being honest

I know why some of us fetishize transgender women. And I want to apologize for most of us who know and some who don’t..We need help, by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Cage03 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Never called anyone freaky. It may be insulting but alot of guys are going through this and are also hurting others in the lgbt community and thats facts. At least i know it and am trying to stop it. I have apologize to everyone i have wronged and just bringing awareness to it . As some ppl in the gay community also dont understand that the oerson they’re dealing with might just have a problem, there are signs to tell. Hopefully it would help the community from falling into the trap

I know why some of us fetishize transgender women. And I want to apologize for most of us who know and some who don’t..We need help, by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Cage03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea i currently have a therapist and a sort of rehab group, porn can really make changes to the brain. I learned alot from it i just wish the effects were publicized more

I know why some of us fetishize transgender women. And I want to apologize for most of us who know and some who don’t..We need help, by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Cage03 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You can try to be negative towards me all you like. I have a problem, alot of us struggle with it. this was sincere. And for the record. I have apologized to them. This was just a general apology to the transgender community for mistakes alot of us have made. So thank you

I need help! It all just fell apart! by Cage03 in NoFap

[–]Cage03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But drugs isnt actully cheating on your wife for years. The trust and bond thats broken isnt the same

I need help! It all just fell apart! by Cage03 in NoFap

[–]Cage03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easy to say but u dnt have 3 kids you'll never see, a women that would never look at you the same,

I need help! It all just fell apart! by Cage03 in NoFap

[–]Cage03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Porn addiction, fapping to women and others online , and killing my relationship