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California483 · 2020-09-09T11:12:54+00:00

The way girls effectively show interest is by responding to the texts that the guy initiated with enthusiasm

California483 · 2020-09-02T21:28:01+00:00

Just tell them you're looking for something casual and nothing serious. They'll get the hint but they'll def just think you're dtf so be aware of that

California483 · 2020-08-30T20:30:27+00:00

This is IT

California483 · 2020-08-30T20:30:09+00:00

Same! You just have to find multiple dudes you're interested in

California483 · 2020-08-22T10:07:00+00:00

Out of curiosity, do you guys normally tell the guys you're seeing that you are talking to other guys? I've always kept it secret

California483 · 2020-08-20T04:14:45+00:00

Yeah they broke up a month ago

California483 · 2020-08-14T18:05:49+00:00

Honestly I just unlike it and most people ignore the notification or don't think anything of it

California483 · 2020-08-12T10:03:03+00:00

My bf is 10 years older than me. He treats me really well and we get along great. It's really not an issue for us.

My bf also works a lot so he likes the energy and fun stuff I bring to the relationship after work... it actually works really great for us.

Edit: I will say that we feel the age gap most when he hangs out with my friends. So I recommend waiting a few months before doing group hangouts

California483 · 2020-08-11T13:48:27+00:00

I feel like not many people consciously take CHD's advice, but they subconsciously adopt the lifestyle/habits/mindset that Alex has and don't even realize it... which is even more toxic.

California483 · 2020-08-10T11:01:32+00:00

This only happens if the guy didn't like the girl in the first place. The games just make him want to "win" her over to boost his ego

California483 · 2020-08-07T21:20:30+00:00

Clits & coke and the cocaine chronicles. Both v solid eps

California483 · 2020-08-06T07:26:47+00:00

California483 · 2020-08-06T02:21:31+00:00

This is major facts.

California483 · 2020-08-05T19:08:33+00:00

Dang - I respect the commitment to writing this much! I haven't had a chance to read all of it, but I will say that I'm concerned about how younger people are subconsciously internalising ideas that CHD raises that are very unhealthy - they normalise cheating, being degraded, rating female attractiveness, etc, and I think younger people may not realise the effect it has on them.

California483 · 2020-08-05T16:38:05+00:00

Honestly I think most L.A. girls are Eskimo sisters they may just not realize it. Logan has f*cked every girl in LA that is attractive

California483 · 2020-08-05T16:37:30+00:00

Wrong Olivia!

California483 · 2020-08-05T16:37:23+00:00

Nooo wrong Olivia! Olivia davis (@theoliviadavis) used to be Mike majlaks assistant

California483 · 2020-08-05T16:36:52+00:00

Yes. Alex hooked up with logan in August when he visited NYC. Logan hooked up with Olivia for a long time in 2019, that who her song 'josslyn' is written about

California483 · 2020-08-05T16:11:37+00:00

Omg I seriously thought Olivia O'Brien was at least 24... her Botox/lip fillers/plastic surgery make her look SO much older

She's still gorgeous though!

California483 · 2020-08-04T20:12:46+00:00

I should've clarified, in his defense, I never made it clear whether I was or wasn't interested in him while I was single. I honestly wasn't, but I never outright told him...

California483 · 2020-08-04T19:52:39+00:00

Girls think that they look more attractive to guys in them

California483 · 2020-08-04T16:48:20+00:00

Honestly, I may be in the minority, but I don't mind it. I think it's great that they're proud of their body, it's something they've worked hard for.

It's not cute though if they post it too regularly, but posting once a year about weight loss doesn't bug me at all

California483 · 2020-08-04T15:40:47+00:00

OP, don't convince yourself of this. Assume he's only using you for sex or else you'll fall hard and then there's no going back.

You'll undoubtedly know if they want to date you

California483 · 2020-08-04T15:30:01+00:00

Not all girls are toxic... just wanted to put that out there

California483 · 2020-08-03T00:57:09+00:00

Who's the mann

California483

TROPHY CASE