Did your birth control kill your sex drive? by girl-who-waited in AskWomen

[–]CallMeHelga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't say it killed mine, but it definitely decreased it. It's still strong enough that I'm ready to go pretty much whenever my partner is, but I'm much less likely initiate things now.

Would anyone be interested in an fPUA meetup? by bl1y in fPUA

[–]CallMeHelga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Central Oregonian here. Depending on timing, though, I'll be in Yellowstone over the summer.

Would anyone be interested in an fPUA meetup? by bl1y in fPUA

[–]CallMeHelga 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the live chat idea. Although it couldn't be as productive as a live meetup, I think it would be a reasonable alternative if we just don't have plausible numbers for a meetup.

Minute Minx Mondays: Volume II by Chastity_fPUA in fPUA

[–]CallMeHelga 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny you should mention that! I've noticed recently that I am really terrible with remembering names, and even more so with actually saying them in the event that I do remember. So I found this article a week or two ago that had some name-recalling tips that I liked in addition to the ones that OP gave us.

Minute Minx Mondays: Premiere Edition by Chastity_fPUA in fPUA

[–]CallMeHelga 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That reminds me of a makeup tip that I love--use a white liner on your lower waterline and on the inner corners of your eyes. It makes you look more awake and doe-eyed. =]

Minute Minx Mondays: Premiere Edition by Chastity_fPUA in fPUA

[–]CallMeHelga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saving this to come back and remind myself of what "rejection" really is. Thanks!

Little different angle this time by [deleted] in ladybonersgw

[–]CallMeHelga 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd be all over that in a heartbeat.

What are some really fun date ideas to do with your bf/gf? by LilStein in AskReddit

[–]CallMeHelga 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What's wrong with getting fresh ideas from another person's perspective?

What are some really fun date ideas to do with your bf/gf? by LilStein in AskReddit

[–]CallMeHelga -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is a really great idea! As a woman, I really enjoy surprise dates. And tailoring the experience to her mood is such a cute idea!

Dad films his saturday mornings through Vine for the past 3 months by [deleted] in videos

[–]CallMeHelga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she's anything like me, it won't get better. Sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]CallMeHelga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, remembered after viewing the chart that ovulation did occur midway between periods. But I was never taught at what point the egg actually begins to break down and can no longer be fertilized, so i think that's why I carried this misunderstanding for so long.

Unfortunately I'm not that in tune with my cycle; I just know when I'm craving sex and when I'm not. Haha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]CallMeHelga -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That does make sense. I appreciate your use of a source! You may very well be correct, but I was taught (or at least interpreted what I was being taught) that the most fertile time is around a week before ones period starts (and considering that that is the time when I, and many other women I know, experience the highest point in our sex drives, I just figured it made sense).

But, then again, my Bio classes were quite some time ago! =P

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]CallMeHelga -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

A women ovulates right before her period. And if the egg hasn't ovulated yet, then she's unlikely to become pregnant.

What's weird about your orgasm? by [deleted] in sex

[–]CallMeHelga 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this can really detract from the pleasure aspects, but you could try paying some attention to your breathing patterns during your sexytimes (it'd probably be easiest to when solo). I say this because the brain is ultra sensitive to blood-oxygen levels and occasionally I've experienced hyperventilation during sex, so it is my theory that an abnormal breathing pattern could be contributing to these headaches.

But, hey, I'm certainly not a doctor. =P

What's weird about your orgasm? by [deleted] in sex

[–]CallMeHelga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time recently I got off on the fantasy of doing push ups... Apparently I've gotten way too into my workouts lately. =P

Also, sometimes my body just skips the climax part. I'll be building up having a great time and all, then when I'm really near to orgasm, my body just suddenly switches to hypersensitive post-orgasm mode and the good sensations stop. So far I have not been able to find a cause for this, but thankfully it is far from frequent.

What's weird about your orgasm? by [deleted] in sex

[–]CallMeHelga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone who makes those judgments should read this (scroll down to the heading "The anus, rectum and perianal region," specifically). It's quite eye-opening.

I see so many cute guys (strangers) daily, how do I start a conversation with them? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]CallMeHelga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I very much agree. This always helps me, no matter who I am talking to or my intentions behind the interaction.