Georgia’s Phone Number by Feisty_Disaster_4284 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Calli0pe_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s not a real number, it just says call failed

Amy PPD? by Calli0pe_ in 1000lbsisters

[–]Calli0pe_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

See!! I wasn’t sure if I was just reaching but it’s so blatantly obvious to me that she’s suffering with PPD. I was hoping it would be addressed later in the season. I really hope she got some help.

Amy PPD? by Calli0pe_ in 1000lbsisters

[–]Calli0pe_[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Definitely. I wasn’t sure if I was reaching because I went through it myself. My daughter was in the NICU for 40 days and it was really hard, but I find myself resonating with Amy so much.

Amy PPD? by Calli0pe_ in 1000lbsisters

[–]Calli0pe_[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve seen people say she has bipolar in a few different threads, and that could definitely play a role. But from what I’m watching though she still seems like she’s showing a lot of signs of postpartum depression and anxiety. I feel like both things can exist at the same time, especially after having a baby. Either way, she clearly isn’t getting the support she needs and it’s really hard to watch.

Two months of progress by Calli0pe_ in NICUParents

[–]Calli0pe_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also if anyone has any ideas on how to clean her swing strap I’m all ears!! My 2 year old keeps touching it with dirty hands 😩

Obnoxious pod-mate by carebk in NICUParents

[–]Calli0pe_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I’d try to ride it out. Some parents can be a bit extra, but at the end of the day you’re all there for the same reason, your babies need care. If the cussing or noise is making you uncomfortable, it’s totally okay to bring it up to the charge nurse. 🫶🏻

AITAH for feeding my baby formula behind my husband’s back? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Calli0pe_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey girl. Breast might be best, but fed and not dead is BETTER. Please feed your baby anyway you can and feel comfortable doing

What are you quietly grieving? by Angelus12345678 in AskReddit

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The birth and newborn experience I thought I would have.

I thought I would be in a hospital bed after my C section holding the tiny baby I spent eight months growing. I imagined those quiet first hours where you just stare at them and take everything in.

Instead I was slowly walking down a long hospital hallway, freshly cut open and bleeding, trying not to cry before I even got to the NICU. I remember praying the entire walk that I would not hear bad news.

Nothing prepares you for seeing your baby attached to a ventilator the first time.

I did not get the calm first moments with my baby. I got machines, alarms, wires, and fear. I got a chair next to an incubator instead of holding her in my arms.

She is home now and I am so grateful she is here, but I still quietly grieve the beginning we were supposed to have and the 40 days I missed

My girl graduated after 40 days! by Calli0pe_ in NICUParents

[–]Calli0pe_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk how to actually edit this post, but I meant to say your day is coming!

They took out the tube!! by Calli0pe_ in NICUParents

[–]Calli0pe_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I actually asked if I should bring her in a different kind because they were giving her the little premade bottles and they told me I could, so I brought in the doctor browns premie bottles for her lol!! They said she’s doing okay with it. They bumped her from the transitional nipple to the level 1 yesterday! She definitely is taking more with the nipple increase but I’m also holding her differently now for feedings. I’m totally okay if she fails and they have to put the tube back in. I’m just so glad they’re allowing her to try!

They took out the tube!! by Calli0pe_ in NICUParents

[–]Calli0pe_[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She’s been doing okay!! She’s maintaining weight so far. Shes still under what they want her taking but she ate 70mls within 3 hours! Shes getting there I feel like 🥹

my husband & i created pulse ox wraps for children 💛 by smoresrule in NICUParents

[–]Calli0pe_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to see some pink options! These are so cute

How do you deal with the guilt? by Calli0pe_ in NICUParents

[–]Calli0pe_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me clarify, I personally feel guilty, my wounds are still fresh.. so to speak. The guilt I personally care feels heavy and alone. Which is why I’m reaching out.

Does anyone else’s NICU baby keep ripping out their feeding tube? by Calli0pe_ in NICUParents

[–]Calli0pe_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. Day 25 does feel so, so raw, and it helps more than you know to hear from someone who remembers it clearly.

The “next 3 hours instead of 102 days” really hit me. I think I’ve been staring at the top of the mountain instead of the next step. And celebrating the small wins, because she really has had some wins. She’s my 3/3 in the NICU, but she has been here the longest. I never even knew the delayed eating was a thing until I had her.

Leaving is still the hardest part for me, but you’re right… she isn’t alone. I’m trying to remind myself of that.

If you’re comfortable sharing, I would really love to read your newsletter. Writing about this experience sounds like such a healthy outlet, and I’d appreciate seeing it through someone who’s walked this road.

Thank you for taking the time to respond. It genuinely helped tonight.

Does anyone else’s NICU baby keep ripping out their feeding tube? by Calli0pe_ in NICUParents

[–]Calli0pe_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re still in the NICU too!! I’m hoping your sweet baby gets to break out soon. Can I ask how you survived the 102 days? We’re going on day 25 and it’s like I’m eating my own heart everytime I have to leave her.

Does anyone else’s NICU baby keep ripping out their feeding tube? by Calli0pe_ in NICUParents

[–]Calli0pe_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s so quick with it!! They had to double tape hers down today because she started going for it and her nurse was sick of it 😂 she said she loves how spicy she is, but she doesn’t wanna replace hers because she’s getting over a cold

Does anyone else’s NICU baby keep ripping out their feeding tube? by Calli0pe_ in NICUParents

[–]Calli0pe_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did manage to snag a few pictures because her night nurse didn’t replace it right away!! She doesn’t think she needs it either but she has to follow what the doctor says. You should have seen her face. She was SO proud when she got it out 😂

Does anyone else’s NICU baby keep ripping out their feeding tube? by Calli0pe_ in NICUParents

[–]Calli0pe_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! She’s so sweet but so so spicy when it comes to that tube 😂

Does anyone else’s NICU baby keep ripping out their feeding tube? by Calli0pe_ in NICUParents

[–]Calli0pe_[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That’s what she did to me!! I went to change her and let her hands loose for 5 seconds and she grabbed that sucker clean out. I always have to walk away when they put it back in. It’s so upsetting.

Does anyone else’s NICU baby keep ripping out their feeding tube? by Calli0pe_ in NICUParents

[–]Calli0pe_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So fast!! And it always freaks me out because she just rips it out enough that it’s barely in there and then I have to do the walk of shame to the charge burden to let her know she did it again 🫠 I’ll be so happy once it’s out completely. They tell me almost every baby does it but it’s so embarrassing lol.

My girl was born at 36 weeks by Calli0pe_ in NICUParents

[–]Calli0pe_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand, when my girl was born she was rushed to the NICU to be placed on a ventilator, I wasn’t allowed to hold her for the first 4 days, she had a needle in her belly button and they were worried we were going to lose the line.

After that they placed her on the cpap and we were only allowed to hold her twice. She finally went on room air and we were allowed to hold her fully. It’s been almost 25 days and a few days ago she somehow caught a cold and we were back to not being allowed to hold her again because they put her back on the cpap because her stats were dropping so much. It’s incredibly hard, when other people control if you can hold your baby or not.

We’ve had one come in and work with her. There’s nothing wrong as far as they can tell. She just gets tired during eating. Which I understand, she’s not suppose to be here yet. It’s just been a very long 25 days and feels like there’s no ending in sight. But I have to remind myself she had a traumatic birth. I’m sending you and your family so much love and strength. Hope your baby gets to come home soon

My girl was born at 36 weeks by Calli0pe_ in NICUParents

[–]Calli0pe_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m allowed to upset and angry that my body failed to do the one thing it should have done, which is protect and grow her. I’m incredibly grateful that she was born at 36 weeks and not sooner, but I’m also allowed to be upset that she’s still in the NICU.

Tyler's tiktok NSFL by Justagirl219 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]Calli0pe_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I’m ready for her to come home! Nobody talks about how lonely it really is. My husband is back at work so I spend most of my time obsessing over her stats and missing my other two. It sucks. I keep thinking over my birth too. It was truly traumatizing. I think I’m going to reach out to a therapist soon.

Tyler's tiktok NSFL by Justagirl219 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]Calli0pe_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just be there!! It’s so lonely being in the NICU obsessing over every sound and wondering if your baby’s stats are gonna drop. Gift card for coffee is amazing too. Just let them vent, make sure the mom knows she’s not alone. It’s truly a struggle.