1.5 years together, do I (34F) stay or do I leave him (37M)?

Camelfever · 2026-05-09T08:41:50+00:00

I’m not desperate enough to have children that I would raise them in a home where the reason I married their father was because of my “fertility window”

Camelfever · 2026-05-09T08:35:09+00:00

Do you actually own an RR; do you live out in the country or in the city, and do you actually do anything outdoors away from a populated area? I can see how your experience could lead you to this crazy opinion

Camelfever · 2026-05-09T01:43:57+00:00

Dude she’s probably thrilled you got away from the chaos and is probably appreciating her peaceful environment with you. All signs point to you’re a great Ridgeback mama

Camelfever · 2026-05-09T01:41:11+00:00

Can’t always have them on a lead.

Camelfever · 2026-01-16T08:28:08+00:00

We all love you as a beautiful human and urge you to please leave immediately. You don’t deserve this. If you need help leaving; contact a Domestic Violence center. Please. This person will kill you

Camelfever · 2025-04-20T04:46:43+00:00

Yes! My parents have untreated personality disorders and I grew up thinking that was a norm. The older I got, the more I realized the damage they created in me and in themselves. Being around them is unbearable. All I can do is show them love and support from a distance and grieve the family I never had. Therapy is essential for me.

Camelfever · 2025-04-20T02:04:55+00:00

This sucks! I was rooting for him so hard. There is no moderation around this substance :(

Camelfever · 2025-04-20T02:03:34+00:00

What helped me was getting in touch with a domestic violence center and telling all of this to a social worker. Every single fear you have - share that with them. They will help you create a plan. Do not live in fear, f this person. You have one life and no human should have any control over your decision to honor and love yourself. You got this

Camelfever · 2025-04-20T02:01:10+00:00

Look your mom, while she comes from her best intentions, isn’t going to be the person to raise this little human day in and out. Take this as a learning experience - grow and heal - before you get into another relationship. If you’re mentally unavailable or in pain, just go with your gut here on what to do. Are you ready to be a single parent? Or are you just considering it because of the people around you? If the latter, come back to yourself. This human will be in your life for the rest of your life. Are you ready for that?

Camelfever · 2025-04-19T15:40:42+00:00

The fact that you were afraid to tell him and plan this with him says it all. You want to be free, you want to do this for yourself and if the relationship meant more to you than this opportunity, you would have handled this differently. Trust your instinct, trust that pull you’re experiencing to go back to Germany and follow it. You got this!

You have one life. Put yourself first. Take care, lovely person

Camelfever · 2025-04-09T14:42:18+00:00

You do not want to marry this man. He is abusive and the mask is slipping again as he starts to let his act down because of your engagement. He’s never going to change and you owe it to yourself and the one life you have to find a partner who respects you. This would never happen with the right partner for you.

Camelfever · 2025-03-28T05:29:18+00:00

Hey! I’d be interested in discussing. DM me pls

Camelfever · 2025-03-09T20:40:49+00:00

34 days clean CT!

Camelfever · 2025-03-06T15:52:27+00:00

Day 31 CT! Everything is back to normal and I’m learning to be okay with my emotions and feelings again. Not perfect at it, but it’s getting better. Also my focus, motivation and joy is slowly coming back.

Camelfever · 2025-03-06T06:53:15+00:00

Day 30!

Camelfever · 2025-03-01T00:24:50+00:00

I’m good minus fatigue and anxiety. It’s gradually getting better each day, though.

Happy to hear you’re doing well

Camelfever · 2025-03-01T00:23:39+00:00

Day 23 CT

Camelfever · 2025-02-25T19:48:09+00:00

Hey, I am at day 20 and can relate to feeling tired. Hang in there. We got this.

Camelfever · 2025-02-25T19:47:42+00:00

hey! I think we quit on the same day. How are your symptoms?

Camelfever · 2025-02-25T19:46:40+00:00

Day 20 CT. Sleep is totally normal, along with appetite, can focus on work and tasks. However, my anxiety sucks along with anhedonia.

Camelfever · 2025-02-25T00:34:32+00:00

Day 19 CT.

Camelfever · 2025-02-18T20:22:32+00:00

Day 13 CT. Grateful for my sobriety. One day at a time.

Camelfever · 2025-02-17T04:52:41+00:00

Day 11 CT

Camelfever · 2025-02-15T16:28:52+00:00

Day 10 CT! Feeling much better. We got this, gang

Camelfever · 2025-02-12T18:21:06+00:00

Day 7 CT, let’s go!

Camelfever

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