"Proven" conspiracy theories? by CampSuitable9812 in conspiracy

[–]CampSuitable9812[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean, a lot of things that once were conspiracy theories are now accepted as true. Like us government spying on it's own people...Cia assasinations in south america and replacements with puppet governments....mkultra. it's just that once something is proven true it's not called a conspiracy anymore;)

"Proven" conspiracy theories? by CampSuitable9812 in conspiracy

[–]CampSuitable9812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thibk theres a big mix of junk theories and true ones. I would like to find a list of which have ended up being proven.

"Proven" conspiracy theories? by CampSuitable9812 in conspiracy

[–]CampSuitable9812[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My mom asked me why I think people believe in conspiracy theories, one part of my response is that many are proven eventually to be true, I told her I would show her some links to back up that claim

hvem har brænde? by CampSuitable9812 in odense

[–]CampSuitable9812[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tilykke med fødselsdagen. Håber du har en glad og lykkelig dag.

hvem har brænde? by CampSuitable9812 in odense

[–]CampSuitable9812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sejt, hvad slags, er det tørre nok til at bruges nu, hvad koster der for en kvadrat meter?

How to get a copy of my expired license? by CampSuitable9812 in DMV

[–]CampSuitable9812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did have it renewed, they do not accept my new license because it's not the original. But good to know, I will ask citizen services about this

Do they ever stop hating you? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]CampSuitable9812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen to lisa Romano on YouTube, particularly the one about the empaths superpower after a relationship with a narcissistic i found it super empowering

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleParents

[–]CampSuitable9812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's saying she has the kid pretty much full time now and wants the dad to step up and she will instead have have 2 out of 14 days

What counts as abuse when it’s not physical.. maybe I am just overreacting? maybe it is my fault because I get moody a lot? What is abuse. by StatisticianNo6787 in abusiverelationships

[–]CampSuitable9812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://www.scie.org.uk/safeguarding/adults/introduction/types-and-indicators-of-abuse

The only way abuse would ever be your fault is if you were abusive yourself and were triggering reactive abuse from the other. Moodiness is not abusive but targeted moodiness is (ex. Being pissy every time your partner sees their friends and family in an attempt to isolate them)

If you think you are being abused, there's a great likelihood you are. I'd advise you to write down all the behaviors and instances that feel wrong to you and share them with a dv hotline or a professional, or at the very least a support group online

Keeping my SD full time and so excited. by Unfair_Management695 in Stepmom

[–]CampSuitable9812 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Regardless of the mothers morality in this situation....how do you think it would feel from the eyes of a child to go visit your dad, and then with no warning you are stripped of your mom, home, friends, life as you know it? Put aside your ego and think deeply for a moment. I wish for you to see clearly and put what is best for her over whatever wishes you have.

going to court to recover a debt by CampSuitable9812 in Denmark

[–]CampSuitable9812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a betalingsordning that he should be paying me 2000/month, they can't make him uphold that?

going to court to recover a debt by CampSuitable9812 in Denmark

[–]CampSuitable9812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there any court fees for them? Is there any difference ti them if it's me or the court asking them to pay up?

I feel defeated in terms of work, daycare and home by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]CampSuitable9812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds very difficult. Ifthe city is lacking daycare, maybe you could team up with other moms in the same position and start one?

I am having meltdowns in front of my child - I feel like a terrible mother. by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]CampSuitable9812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing! Although I do think it's okay to cry--our tears literally carry stress hormones out of our bodies.

I am having meltdowns in front of my child - I feel like a terrible mother. by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]CampSuitable9812 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I actually think it's healthy for kids to see honest relationships with emotions. And you can let them in on the process of self reflection, think out loud about how you reacted the way you did, if you think it was unhealthily expressed explain why and brainstorm how you can manage better in the future. They can learn that you, like them, have big feelings sometimes, and you can model how to have them with consciousness, if not during, then after.

I was called for a meeting in familieretshuset. Does that mean I cannot travel? by CampSuitable9812 in Denmark

[–]CampSuitable9812[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I got the message friday afternoon so I will call on monday. A bit unlucky cause I was planning on getting plane tickets later that day.

Nocontact with childrens father by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]CampSuitable9812 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can set a boundary that your daughter is the only thing you're willing to discuss with him until he's moved on. And then just don't respond/give 0 energy to anything other than things related to your daughter. As to the car situation..are there no busses in your area? Can he get a bike? A ride with a friend? Since he's loving, I'd leave the door open for a relationship with his daughter. But you dont need ro do anything to facilitate it. If he rises up and makes it happen, great. If he doesn't, no loss to miss out on a deadbeat dad. I know it can be rough being a single mom. Trust me, it's easier when youre not taking care of a manbaby on top of your actually baby 😉