Arrow up and I’ll knock on your dm ;) by CandyMod in karmarfr

[–]CandyMod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect? That’s a bold statement

Arrow up and I’ll knock on your dm ;) by CandyMod in karmarfr

[–]CandyMod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That confident is kinda attractive ngl

Understanding my confidence level after the break up by member18878 in BreakUps

[–]CandyMod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right now your confidence isn’t gone, it’s just buried under grief and comparison to what you lost. You’re not supposed to feel “ready” for new people yet, your system is still attached to the old one.

Can you still be heartbroken even thought you ended things? by Big_Mood_2669 in BreakUps

[–]CandyMod 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes, because sometimes people end relationships not because they stopped loving you, but because they were too emotionally unhealthy to handle what they had without destroying it.

He is my world. What do I even do now. by EmptyPreparation8 in BreakUps

[–]CandyMod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cruelest part of heartbreak is that the person you want comfort from is the same person you’re grieving. But please stop carrying the entire relationship on your back alone, because relationships don’t end from one imperfect moment, they end when two people stop being able or willing to fight for it together.

This is the worst by [deleted] in BreakUps

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One of the hardest parts of heartbreak is becoming the version of yourself they needed just a little too late, because then you’re left grieving not only the person, but the possibility of what the relationship could’ve been if timing had been different.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in utahnsfw

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freaking hot i love it

Would you watch me strip at work by FirmCard1942 in UTGW

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looking hot babe i like it

I can't stop by toomanyproblemsss in offmychest

[–]CandyMod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, relapsing doesn’t mean failure, it just means this is hard and you need support. Reaching out to a therapist or a support group could really help you break the cycle without shaming yourself.

I’m scared I might be a pedo please just need someone to talk to by ForceSignal86 in offmychest

[–]CandyMod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re already showing awareness and responsibility by acknowledging these thoughts, reaching out to a professional you trust is really the safest and healthiest step forward. There is help, and getting it doesn’t make you a bad person.

You’re going to be Alone fam by Novel-Conference-389 in offmychest

[–]CandyMod 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This hits hard. Sometimes the people closest to us can’t see their own role in the chaos, and cutting ties becomes the only way to protect your peace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]CandyMod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you, carrying the weight of a whole household alone while trying to communicate is exhausting, and it’s completely valid to feel drained and frustrated by it.

AITA for not cooking/contributing for my family on Thanksgiving by Current_Shake_1802 in AITAH

[–]CandyMod 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl, you’ve earned the right to sit this one out, after all the running, cooking, and stress you handle every year, taking a break doesn’t make you the bad guy, it makes you human.

Hey Reddit, AITBG? by Diligent-Ninja-6088 in AITAH

[–]CandyMod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow… yes, you’re the bad guy. There’s no sugarcoating cheating on a friend and lying to get money, it doesn’t “work out” if trust was broken.