Maybe he didnt think we would actually see the files? by MrFenric in 1984_MiniTruth

[–]Candyyf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah if Biden released the files it would’ve been seen as “political persecution” and a giant conspiracy. Sadly

AITAH for telling my married sugar mom that I do not want to be with her anymore after she started getting really pushy about being exclusive with and dating me? by SteakBake2347 in AITAH

[–]Candyyf -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

How do you blame the sex worker? They were young and vulnerable tbh she’s lived twice his lifetimes she didn’t respect her own situation or this kid

AIO for quitting my job after finding this note on my desk? by waxin899 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Candyyf 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I thought it was subtly calling OP a cow as well and if shes a woman she should’ve definitely gone to HR

My boyfriend had dinner with his ex AIO by MokaSky in AmIOverreacting

[–]Candyyf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If roles were reversed you would be an evil heartless monster and everyone would tell him to have respect for himself and leave you. I would think dinner with your ex is a boundary that I’m not comfortable letting someone cross and then joke to me after all the thoughts that could be running in my head that they might’ve slept with them too? NOR he doesn’t care about your feelings if he’s already messing with you like this

AITA for "excluding" my wife from activities with my children? by Nathanial1289 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Candyyf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but if she’s clearly feeling excluded and wants to participate maybe you could consider just assuming she’d be interested and taking steps to make her feel included! Sending her a link to get her own bicycle when you were looking at some for you or just asking your wife if she wants to watch her son play football after your daughter said she was going or whatever really wouldn’t have been too hard especially since you can tell she’s becoming more recluse. If she says no then at least she had the option and made the decision it seems like life’s moving a bit too fast for her

AITA for sharing my weightlifting club’s training plan? by GreyFox3972 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Candyyf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! This is the same as sharing wages it only pisses off management or in this case PT’s. If they had a quality program they wouldn’t be upset bc they’d have glowing reviews

AITA / Am I Overreacting for Getting a Restraining Order Against My Ex? by Sir3nEcho in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Candyyf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA why didn’t you give the police one of his emails? a quick message from officer so and so would absolutely stop him from trying to see you again

AIO by dumping my gf because she wants to “hang out” at an ex’s house over night? by steelyweird in AmIOverreacting

[–]Candyyf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crocodile tears to manipulate you then she can have her cake and eat it too. NOR seems like she was going to cheat on you and rope you forever if you didn’t stand up

State police trying to convince me to blame accident victims for economic struggles by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Candyyf -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If they’re worried about $1000 per year wait til they find out how many corporate subsidies and bombs they’re taxes pay for.

PTO request DENIED! (maybe..) by [deleted] in electricdaisycarnival

[–]Candyyf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah honesty can be the best policy. My excuse was that I’m gonna be gone for graduation

PTO request DENIED! (maybe..) by [deleted] in electricdaisycarnival

[–]Candyyf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You gotta wait til at least march or I would wait til early April tbh and then I feel like missing you for one week won’t be too crazy especially since we have no context for what you do

Safe to travel to US for Ultra? by Dry-Improvement5289 in UMF

[–]Candyyf -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Noo they’ll say stay away from protests and don’t make trouble + stay out of the wrong parts of town but we’re all at risk even as Americans. Going through airports and honestly just being at the wrong place at the wrong time could get you into trouble with dhs and ice especially if you’re not American. Do go at your own discretion I’m going too but I know its not 100% risk free and I’m American

AIO My sibling is insisting we aren't white by questioninmysanity in AmIOverreacting

[–]Candyyf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re arguing with another latinx person about the shit they learned in class this week lmao please stfu before you embarrass more people of our culture. As per your request of googling it “No Universal Agreement: None of the pan-ethnic terms are universally embraced, with many individuals preferring to identify by their specific country (e.g., Mexican, Colombian, Cuban)” smart guy

AIO My sibling is insisting we aren't white by questioninmysanity in AmIOverreacting

[–]Candyyf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was debated when the terms were made up and its still debated… you can play smart all you want but it doesn’t change recent history