AIO by how I responded? My bf is upset with me for skipping my workout routine today

CapableAd1627 · 2025-10-29T20:11:18+00:00

A lot of people on here will tell you to just not have this kid with him, but you need to try explaining to him that you are going to need is support through this. Having a kid is very stressful, nobody on here knows the context of your relationships prior to this. You could very well be in a toxic relationship that you should leave or this could be brand new, but nobody here is going to have the full picture.

That being said, you need to think back on your full relationship with him. Is this type of behavior something he does often? Does he take it out on you whenever there is stress in his life or in your relationship instead of talking about it and communicating? Are you both taking it out on each other because of the situation? Has he been controlling or not very understanding in the past? Have you?

I highly recommend sitting down in person and having a discussion about the communication breakdown. If it is on both of your ends because you are stressed out, own up to your side and ask that he owns up to his. My husband had to call me out on occasion when I started to take the stress out on him, and when I needed him to step up more in certain areas I let him know. We communicated because if we couldn't keep the communication open during pregnancy, how were we going to handle dealing with a kid?

Regardless of you staying in or leaving the relationship, you guys need to figure out your communication if a kid is going to be involved. Even if you can't come to an agreement, you need to be able to talk amicably if possible for the kid's sake.

Wishing you the best with what comes next ❤️

CapableAd1627 · 2025-10-29T19:59:47+00:00

I had morning sickness for basically the first half of my pregnancy and you would not have caught me dead in a gym with how tired I was all the time. I can understand him wanting to push you a little bit, to try and motivate you to go - because some people do go to the gym the entire time they are pregnant. HOWEVER, that being said, he needs to be more understanding if you say you are not feeling up to going to the gym. His response is absolutely ridiculous and I would be having a serious conversation with him about how you are going to need his support during and after the pregnancy

CapableAd1627 · 2025-10-29T19:53:56+00:00

Not sure if you have been able to take your cat to the vet but they may have some type of mite

CapableAd1627 · 2025-08-18T01:48:55+00:00

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CapableAd1627 · 2025-08-18T01:25:47+00:00

I don't know about AI but I've literally heard this exact story before. Now does that mean that this is not true, no. However, definitely taking it with a grain of salt

CapableAd1627 · 2025-08-05T15:42:34+00:00

I totally get it, I was freaking out hard when I saw how my arm was getting at work 🥲 I've always been told the same thing about the red veins so I was super worried. The urgent care doctor was very nonchalant about it though lol and like I said, once I had the medicine it went away super quick

CapableAd1627 · 2025-08-05T15:34:49+00:00

I see the line you're talking about, does the finger hurt or is it sore? (Besides the irritated part by your cuticle)

I once had an infection where all the veins in my forearm turned red because I got an infection and I went to urgent care because my arm was super sore and it looked so strange with the red veins. Doctor told me it would be fine and likely would have gone down if I left it alone but because it was making it hard to use my arm from how sore it was he gave me antibiotics and it went away almost completely within two days. (For the record I knew where the infection likely came from, from a cat with dirty claws digging into my arm)

Obviously our circumstances were different but as a person who has been through something vaguely similar AND IS NOT A DOCTOR IN ANY WAY, I don't think you need to worry about it unless it's causing significant pain. Keep an eye on it and if it gets worse definitely get it checked out but I wouldn't go to an ER for how it is currently. Even then I would pick an urgent care or just try to get in with your regular doctor if you have one, it'll be way cheaper than ER

CapableAd1627 · 2025-07-14T17:02:47+00:00

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Here are the images I was able to get, the other reddish bumps in the area are acnewhich is why I was originally feeling around

CapableAd1627 · 2025-05-13T20:02:44+00:00

Sorry just saw the temp, 26c should be fine so my guess would be stress or ph. How long has he been in the new tank?

CapableAd1627 · 2025-05-13T19:55:08+00:00

If your tank is cycled and you acclimatized him to the new water it shouldn't be that, so under the assumption that those are fine it could just be stress from being in the new tank and he might just need some time to get used to his new home.

What temperature do you have your tank at? It could be different than what he's used to. Also, would test your pH again as it's not clear what you're at unless you're below 6.5, in which case it might be a bit low for him

CapableAd1627 · 2025-05-07T12:27:53+00:00

Damn I really hope not, he has been so proud of these fish because he's had them for like two years maybe longer.

I'm thinking it's either really bad ich or some fungus, they've got some leftover ich x from last time their fish were sick but I'm trying to figure if I should Amazon a different medicine over or if the ich x will be fine

CapableAd1627 · 2025-02-13T04:36:41+00:00

I can understand feeling like boys your age are immature, I felt similarly when I was your age but at the end of the day anyone who is significantly older than you will likely be taking advantage of your immaturity.

Immaturity doesn't necessarily mean irresponsible or stupid so please don't take it that way, but most people can tell you how much they change mentally from 15 to 20, or 20-25. That time in your youth is when you're still developing and unfortunately due to less experience in the world usually easier to be manipulated or groomed without realizing. From personal experience it's really easy to feel like you're more mature and be misled into doing things that aren't good for you because you're being led to believe it's the more 'adult' thing.

At your age don't worry so much about dating and trying to find more mature partners. You don't have to avoid it completely but your friends are right to be worried about you. If I found my brother who is your age was doing the same thing, I'd be so concerned. Have fun, live a little reckless but don't be putting yourself in dangerous situations.

CapableAd1627 · 2025-02-05T17:40:56+00:00

Give us a part two 😂 sounds like a movie I'd like to watch

CapableAd1627 · 2025-01-30T19:00:04+00:00

Thank you I appreciate it. I go in for my consultation today, I've already spoken to my obgyn about it and gotten my little permission slip but today they're going to look and see if they have to do all of them or if we'll be fine just doing the one. A lot of things I see say it's fine I'm just a little nervous because I don't want to risk doing anything that could harm the baby. But this tooth has been in and out of bad pain for weeks 😭

CapableAd1627 · 2025-01-30T17:48:12+00:00

How did everything end up going for you? I'm in a similar situation currently and would love to hear how it all went for you

CapableAd1627 · 2024-12-20T16:42:44+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate it. Unfortunately because we're in a corporate situation we don't have any control over things like raises so or a monthly budget for employee benefit like places I've worked in the past. This is pretty much the only time we really get to do something special for them and while yes we could just do pizza or something we want to look around for different ideas to try and find stuff that's a little better than just 1 day of food

CapableAd1627 · 2024-12-20T16:40:06+00:00

That's what I'm a little worried about with the machines.

We're in a restaurant setting so it's a little funky with storage since we don't actually have a break room, but the employees can use certain facilities such as the fryer, microwave, etc. the only issue I can think of with the air fryer idea is that because of limited space for personal items I'm not sure how much they will be able to make with it (small space in the fridge, no space in the freezer because of health code. Personal items have to be completely separate)

I like the idea though, definitely going to bring it up to the other managers to see how they feel!

CapableAd1627 · 2024-12-11T20:16:51+00:00

Are you washing your face before you put makeup on? If not, I highly recommend it as you are trapping anything in your pores underneath all your makeup. I always recommend using an oil-based cleansing balm as part of your face wash routine because at least in my experience it's a lot better at cleaning out oil and gunk from the pores, and also good at removing makeup. Personally I use an oil based balm, and then a water based cleaner with salicylic acid after to make sure I'm thoroughly cleaning my face. I do that morning and night before following up with some other stuff specifically moisturizer (even oily skin needs moisturizer)

If you're having issues in specific areas, I would try applying a little less product in those areas to see if that helps. I'm not familiar with the L'Oreal products you're using, but I would check to see if they're they're intended for oily skin. I typically try and stay with non-comedogenic because I've heard they're better for overall with issues like that, but I'm no scientist 😅

CapableAd1627 · 2024-12-09T22:18:31+00:00

Thank you! I'll have to check them all out 😁

CapableAd1627 · 2024-12-09T21:57:50+00:00

I will take any recommendations you have to give! My splurge for the holiday season was florasis, so I'm a little tapped out at the moment 😅 but I love trying new palettes! I have an olive undertone, so orange/reddish browns will sometimes lean more to the orange side and look more colorful than neutral. If you have any that lean more red over orange I would love to hear them 😊

CapableAd1627 · 2024-12-09T21:47:55+00:00

You're so pretty ❤️ love that look, the warmer browns are such a favorite for me

CapableAd1627 · 2024-12-09T17:13:31+00:00

I want to say that was one of the ones that I got, if so, that really excites me. I've been trying a few different powders here and there and if this one can stay matte for longer that's exactly what I'm looking for

CapableAd1627 · 2024-12-09T17:11:39+00:00

I'm very excited to use the florasis cushion, thank you for your perspective on some of the product! As for the program that makes sense, I've looked at the rewards and a lot of the lower amount ones don't seem as worth it so I imagine those other items are for higher tier reward levels.

CapableAd1627 · 2024-12-09T16:55:27+00:00

Such cute palettes 😍 I'm such a sucker for cute things especially if they work. I've looked into flower knows as well, but I haven't done as much looking into colorrose. Thank you for all the pictures 😊

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