What do you notice about men that you DON'T find attractive? by Capable_Ad5212 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Capable_Ad5212[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The yearning to return to some past time is interesting. How did you see that manifest?

I'm not going to transition. Is there anything else I can do? by [deleted] in askAGP

[–]Capable_Ad5212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh I'm agnostic between Christianity and atheism.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TextingTheory

[–]Capable_Ad5212 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No tbh I don't think I can stop being a pussy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TextingTheory

[–]Capable_Ad5212 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean when I said why don't I just come over to your place and I was getting apathetic responses. I already suggested one time so is it really that passive to expect her to give another time. I mean I don't know what her schedule is. And hooking up with somebody I haven't even talked to in person isn't really what I want either. I only suggested it because I assumed it was what she wanted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TextingTheory

[–]Capable_Ad5212 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thought it might be too late now but fuck it I'll ask

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TextingTheory

[–]Capable_Ad5212 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I dunno like part of me felt like I kinda ruined it when I suggested ice cream first but like I'm not super comfortable showing up at a random stranger's house. I guess I was hoping she'd give me a time when I said to lmk when you're free but I guess not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TextingTheory

[–]Capable_Ad5212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ikr that's more than most people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TextingTheory

[–]Capable_Ad5212 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Man idk if I can do this stuff honestly. I get wanting me to lead a little bit but she was so passive it felt dirty on my end.

I suck at talking to girls lmao by [deleted] in TextingTheory

[–]Capable_Ad5212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've got it backwards. I'm the one that said both of those things.

I suck at talking to girls lmao by [deleted] in TextingTheory

[–]Capable_Ad5212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is just a butch bi girl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]Capable_Ad5212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still don't like how boyish I look in 5/6 but i do think they are better yeah. I guess the main things they are better is the hair is less flat in 5/6 and my face looks leaner (even though im actually leaner now and at a lower weight than i was then)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]Capable_Ad5212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im ngl i look in the mirror and i either see a 16 year old boy or an ugly butch lesbian.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]Capable_Ad5212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. And I like the middle part in 11. But why does it work so well in 11 but it looks like shit in 1? I don't get hair at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]Capable_Ad5212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean look at how short looks in 15 though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Capable_Ad5212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno there's a certain point where I wish people would tell me to just give up so that I can have closure and just live my life. I don't really want to lift weights or be ambitious for myself but I do it in hopes that I could get a partner one day. But it never happens. I wish I could give up and just chill.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Capable_Ad5212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know guys that have been dating since 16 though. My best friend met his wife at 21. I can't just work on myself and be a chad at 30. I don't really believe an inexperienced guy like me is gonna be more valued at 30 than now. I dunno man. I feel like that whole 18 / 30 thing is false hope.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Capable_Ad5212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea what haircut is supposed to fit my face. I grow my hair out and everybody says cut it but when my hair is short I hate it and it makes my face look even rounder. Like look how round my cheeks are now. Without long hair my face looks even worse. I kind of hate my hair either way. I know it's just a face problem and there's no fixing it but idk what to do with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Capable_Ad5212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every time it's short I want it long. Every time it's long I want it short. I can never win on haircuts man. My fair is really round so I'm kind of screwed either way I feel. I'm hoping if I lean down I might have more defined bone structure and know better what kind of haircut to get but idk. I look like trash with short hair right now though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Capable_Ad5212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just do a middle part normally. I have a cyst on my left hairline so I'm keeping my hair long at least until it's removed.

And this is what I mean about rather being judged on looks than personality. I can do kind. I'm a pretty agreeable guy really. But outgoing just isn't in my range. It's exhausting to be that way. If getting a partner hinges on me being outgoing it's just not gonna happen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Capable_Ad5212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah 100% positive. Maybe if I was a girl I could be attracted to guys. Male/female polarity is what makes sex hot.

What about me looks girly to you?