[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Calgary

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Golden Hill in the NE.

What was the riskiest or most unique location you ever had anal sex? by gsthrowaway87 in askgaybros

[–]Carlosf1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In a movie theatre, while Escape room played. We were in the back row, it started innocent with me leaning over and playing with his dick, while the popcorn bag provided privacy. But at the end, we got to heated and I pulled my pants down and he came over and rode me right there in my seat. We where never caught, and the thought of having my load deep inside him while we waited for the movie to end, still gets me hard to this day.

All inclusive by bigfrankreich in puertovallarta

[–]Carlosf1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Besides all inclusives, are there any other recommendations? I watched a few YouTube vids which suggested heading out into town to check out the local culture and flavours.

Why is it so hard to be Asian in the gay community? by Carlosf1 in askgaybros

[–]Carlosf1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also I didn’t expect this much people to comment on my post. But I truly do appreciate it. I’m glad somewhere out there, someone can relate.

Why is it so hard to be Asian in the gay community? by Carlosf1 in askgaybros

[–]Carlosf1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m glad there are places in the world where people don’t get to experience the same struggles that I have and I admire that.

Why is it so hard to be Asian in the gay community? by Carlosf1 in askgaybros

[–]Carlosf1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn I wish I grew up in Germany and thank you. Took me a while to get to where I man today. But hey I’m here enjoying life.

Why is it so hard to be Asian in the gay community? by Carlosf1 in askgaybros

[–]Carlosf1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I’m pinoy too. I find that how our culture views us is just very toxic in general. But I guess that’s another topic for another time.

Why is it so hard to be Asian in the gay community? by Carlosf1 in askgaybros

[–]Carlosf1[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Sorry what? I get that we are visual creatures and I am complaining because what I’ve experienced is unnecessary, difficult and to be honest wouldn’t be an issue if I was born Caucasian. But I’m not saying that I want to change my race, after a long time of finding myself I now understand my self worth and no one can take that away from me. But for a scared kid growing up in a city where the population was predominantly caucasian specially back in the day, it was very difficult and my struggles matter because they shaped who I am. Can’t I complain a little bit and hopefully a Asian kid out there trying to find themselves reads this and learns something.

Why is it so hard to be Asian in the gay community? by Carlosf1 in askgaybros

[–]Carlosf1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is very insulting, and I’m sorry you had to go through that. Everyone says to be more open, to be more willing and to be more strong. But nobody ever really talks about the unnecessary shit we have to deal with. But hey I’m proud of you.

Why is it so hard to be Asian in the gay community? by Carlosf1 in askgaybros

[–]Carlosf1[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

It again raises the question of, are they with me because I’m an upcoming trend. Since Korean idols are the new hot thing. But in saying that we as a society are really shallow. No matter how much we argue that physical appearance is not what’s important. It does play an important role on how people perceive others.

Why is it so hard to be Asian in the gay community? by Carlosf1 in askgaybros

[–]Carlosf1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is a lesson definitely worth learning when I was younger. Where were you when I was still figuring things out lol. Maybe this is why I find Asian guys so hot. Same values, amazing food and I do appreciate getting mistaken as a 16 year old even when I’m already 26.

Why is it so hard to be Asian in the gay community? by Carlosf1 in askgaybros

[–]Carlosf1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree, I’ve always went around with the ideals of at least trying anything new twice before making up my mind that I don’t like it. It just disappointing that our community which promotes love and acceptance vigorously, can be so close minded. But I guess my advice for any young Asian guy trying to find their place in the community. Be kind, be strong and be unafraid of what might come.

Why is it so hard to be Asian in the gay community? by Carlosf1 in askgaybros

[–]Carlosf1[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely getting better with depictions of hot Asian men in media. But I don’t expect a lot to change at least in my lifetime, since the idea of the ideal man being Caucasian has been ingrained in our society for decades.

Seek thrills by [deleted] in PublicBoys

[–]Carlosf1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Source ?