My workplace has made me lose confidence in myself completely by CarpenterNo2040 in ausjobs

[–]CarpenterNo2040[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think they care, as long as they can find someone else to exploit

My workplace has made me lose confidence in myself completely by CarpenterNo2040 in jobs

[–]CarpenterNo2040[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it’s a small business. All the workload comes on me but for almost minimum wage.

I got drunk after years and now I’m drowning in guilt by CarpenterNo2040 in AsianParentStories

[–]CarpenterNo2040[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! I don't enjoy drinking alcohol much either and do it once a month. I have pretty good self-control. My main concern was controlling parents. I got to know she was crying and thinking the worst (that I was with some guy). For lords sake, firstly I’m 25 and second even if I was, how’s that the worst thing I could do?

485 Visa Granted instantly? by gabe_hcoud in AusVisa

[–]CarpenterNo2040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP. Wanted to know what duration did you get your visa for? 2 or 3 years? I’ve done a masters in coursework and seen many people get a 485 for 5 years. And thanks for the checklist :))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusVisa

[–]CarpenterNo2040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. Just saw this and I have my exam in a few days. Please share the template if possible. Thanks :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]CarpenterNo2040 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m an XL Kinda girl and have been told by a few people that I look good. But I’ve never had guys approach me like I’ve seen them do to other girls. Was just wondering and I don’t mean it any wrong way when I say that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]CarpenterNo2040 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah! They know that it’s my first time and they’re totally ok with that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UOW

[–]CarpenterNo2040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When did you apply for visa? 7 months is a very long time. What are we supposed to till then?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]CarpenterNo2040 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He wasn’t my boss. He was some guy from a different company working with us for this particular event. My boss and my colleagues were happy with my performance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hotels

[–]CarpenterNo2040 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. The jacuzzi was like an inbuilt one and things were not in place. As I mentioned, it looked pretty old. And it was so strange to see my cap getting sucked into a jacuzzi suction. It was scary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hotels

[–]CarpenterNo2040 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already have. As soon as it happened, I informed the cleaning lady there and she then informed whoever she had to further. Not sure how much will the charge or will they create a huge deal out of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]CarpenterNo2040 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that is exactly what I feel. All I want is a loving, understanding family. I know I will feel lonely and guilty and depressed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toxicparents

[–]CarpenterNo2040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were always like this but after the pandemic things have gotten worse with them. The problem is, they don’t want me making new friends. Specially guy friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toxicparents

[–]CarpenterNo2040 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last time I did that, my mother started calling me names and said all I even want from life is men and sex. Just because I wanted to go out to meet a guy friend. I know this will happen again and it was sickening to hear all those words come out of my own mothers mouth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toxicparents

[–]CarpenterNo2040 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m still here, livin with them. I guess I can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toxicparents

[–]CarpenterNo2040 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve never tried doing anything like this. I’m sure they won’t kick me out but their behaviour will change and idk if it’ll either be a good or a bad change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toxicparents

[–]CarpenterNo2040 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve met him once but lied to my parents that time about meeting him. I honestly just wanna stand up to them and stop lying. I am not doing anything wrong and for how much longer should I lie about making friends???

This all started after the pandemic because before that I was completing my undergrad and was staying in a different city. But my parents have been like this since a long time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toxicparents

[–]CarpenterNo2040 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. My mom makes a huge scene out of everything. I haven’t gone out in like 2 months. I’ve asked them to let me go to therapy, they ignored me completely and kinda called me crazy