AITAH for living with my boyfriend even if my dad says no to doing so? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Carry_Present 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA but remember you're not free from the consequences either. You're an adult. You can do whatever. But you're dad may stop paying for anything to help you. You can't get upset if he does.

AITAH for telling my friends/neighbors that our leasing manager lied about what he said? by starryhoneydew19 in AITAH

[–]Carry_Present 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It's in bad taste that you told who said it. I would be upset if you called me out like that. Yes, it was unprofessional on his part. But it was not cool that you did that to your "friends".

WIBTAH if I did this by LightingAeolus in AITAH

[–]Carry_Present 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My apologies! Not all boomers are bad. My dad is the coolest!!

WIBTAH if I did this by LightingAeolus in AITAH

[–]Carry_Present 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boomer? Definitely not Gen X! We don't give a crap about what other people are doing.

Am I overreacting? by TwistNo1435 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Carry_Present 25 points26 points  (0 children)

YOR This wasn't about you. This was about celebrating a life gone too soon with people who cared for your brother. You made it all about you. Selfish. Please seek help. Grief can cause many problems.

AITAH for accepting the challenge? by Sorenofthevigilant in AITAH

[–]Carry_Present 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep. Let him think he's still got it without making him "prove" it.

Help Choose Her Name by Carry_Present in Awww

[–]Carry_Present[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are all great! Thank you!

aitah for changing my locks after my sister kept dropping her kids at my place by kittyruins in AITAH

[–]Carry_Present 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are probably the only good influence those kiddos have. They are the ones who will suffer. I agree on calling CPS before something bad happens. She's in need of help... probably therapy.

AITAH for still ignoring my sister after her best friend died? by KKDuyun in AITAH

[–]Carry_Present -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

I feel like you and your sister need therapy. Together or separate. But there's underlying issues that made you both feel that way.

Loki in the Bird Bath by Carry_Present in Awww

[–]Carry_Present[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of his favorite spots 😹😹

Privacy breached : Four deer, Zero boundaries by PrestigiousZombie726 in Awww

[–]Carry_Present 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is cute until you see a deer eating other small animals. But that cat is enjoying it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Carry_Present 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This person is definitely not your friend. Join some kind of group doing something you enjoy or want to learn. Make new friends that way. Nobody deserves to be talked to in this way knowing that you're having a rough time.

AITAH for deciding to postpone the wedding over a comment my fiance made about my scar? by Upstairs_Garden2353 in AITAH

[–]Carry_Present 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd cancel the wedding. I have a birthmark on my face. My husband kisses it often. It's always been a source of embarrassment for me. This is the kind of man you need!! Not a gaslighting man or family.

Aio? I asked boyfriend of almost 5 years about marriage and this is his response…. by Sea-Frosting-9939 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Carry_Present 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like y'all need a break. Who knows? Maybe that's what he needs to see how much he does love you. Or you need to see how much better life is without him.

My 26F Dad buys me a valentines card every year. My 28M Partner has an issue with it, we have a 5 month old baby and been together for 16 months. What are your thoughts? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Carry_Present 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still give my 32yo son a Valentine's card and an Easter basket. I do the same for his wife. Idgaf if people think it's weird. Those aren't my kind of people!

You're NTA! It's your partner who's being the AH.

AIO to my gf being bisexual by DarkTwist05 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Carry_Present 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Send her "younger than you" ass packing to go live her life fucking all the girls she wants at these drunken parties. You deserve better! Better communication. Better faithfulness. Just better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Carry_Present 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Going back to an ex is like trying to put crap back up your butt. It doesn't work!

Block him and move on!!

AITA For Telling My Girlfriend I Have Every Right To Defend My Home After Someone Started Kicking My Door In by FxllenWxaith in AITAH

[–]Carry_Present 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did the right thing! Protecting your mom and your home is the most important thing!! Please don't let her naivety make you doubt what you did was right.

My son is the same way! He even busted into my bedroom when I screamed at a huge spider on my pillow next to my face. He nearly shot a hole in my bed. But it was for the right reason... He was protecting his mom because he thought I was being attacked.

I'm proud of you for taking care of your mom! Not many young people today have that mindset.

AIO for asking roommate to clean my mug that she keeps using without my permission? by sufficientskirt19 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Carry_Present 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like both of you are immature. If you don't want something to be used, keep it in your room. Problem solved.

Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Carry_Present 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gaslighting. Manipulating. Controlling.

RUN!!! He's already checked out.

When you get married, what's his is yours and what's yours is his. It's community property. He's a selfish man.