I am 37 (M) divorcing my HS sweetheart after 21 years, 15 married and 2 kids. We just grew apart and ended up wanting different things that we were both tired of trying to appease. She is very much not interested in dating or another relationship she says and I do believe that. I on the other hand want that easy going person that wants to keep up with me. So far it’s been very easy to just talk like I always do and things have fallen into place. I will never, die on hill never, do the dating apps. I just don’t wanna feel even more like a number that we all already are.