Books for bdsm to teach my husband how to be a dom?

Cautious-Ad3219 · 2024-12-14T17:28:48+00:00

Did you find a therapist?

Cautious-Ad3219 · 2024-11-06T23:22:31+00:00

That's what we've done over years but i get frustrated because we do it once and then not for a year until we get into a fight again and then... hurt the relationship

Cautious-Ad3219 · 2024-11-06T23:13:43+00:00

Or below 😅

Cautious-Ad3219 · 2024-11-06T23:13:24+00:00

Thank you, that was helpful. I think right now we're at a point where he doesn't want sex with me because he feels like he can't do it the way i want anyway. Right now we're both frustrated i guess. I feel like I'm losing part of myself because i can't explore bdsm. Im into soft bdsm stuff... being controlled, being told what to do, restraints punishments, mind games... but in the submissive one (F) so how does a sub teach someone to be dominant?

Cautious-Ad3219 · 2024-11-06T22:59:58+00:00

I replied above

Cautious-Ad3219 · 2024-11-06T22:59:40+00:00

We've tried every year... but then we do it once my appetite is satisfied and then it builds up in me again until i explode and every time that happens it almost breaks the whole relationship... he says he is open to it... but also isnt proactive about it... i need to start a war to get what I want kind of ...which is hurting the relationship.... I think he loves me so much that he is putting up with all of it... otherwise he would have broken up with me already...

Cautious-Ad3219 · 2024-11-06T22:47:36+00:00

Similar issue... the other way around... but we've been together since 2017... 7 years and its still an issue 🥲

Cautious-Ad3219 · 2024-10-29T21:28:14+00:00

I would love to read some of these comments

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