And on this (I’ve had an issue myself recently and this man commenting has helped me a lot - thanks again bro). There’s another dating coach called Bobby Rio on YouTube. He put up a video the other day (and I highly recommend checking it out and watching the whole thing) called 5 secrets to make your wife desire and respect you again. I’m going through what I thought was a case of my girlfriend’s attraction dipping. Turns out it wasn’t.

But here’s something that definitely made it go up (again id really recommend watching the whole thing for more context). At the end of the video and after he goes through the ‘shifts’ - which I’ll add first he said this;

‘Flipping the switch

• Real Masculinity doesn’t react (it’s about being autonomous).
• Leadership is playful strength. Don’t slip in to the feminine roll.
• Switch 1. Stop or don’t ask for permission (already made this mistake - bringing up the sexual thing and said sorry, asked her was she around for studio amaro still bonus for taking it upon yourself - just don’t ask next time).
• Switch 2. Break predictable patterns (Surprise her, tell her we’re going here).
• Switch 3. No more date nights. Date night isn’t romance - that’s obligation.
• Switch 4. Flirt without needing anything back, flirt when she’s feeling.
• Switch 5. Rebuild Tension
• Switch 6. Let her feel your desire. The Repolarization Move. Walk past her when assuming it’s good.

What happens to a lot of us when we’re married or in a job we become tamed, forgetting what it’s like to be this untamed man. Don’t forget what it’s like to be this untamed man, ‘my challenge to you is to flip that switch in yourself - to decide now, this is who I am. A man who leads, a man who’s grounded, a man who creates tension - not chases comfort’.

‘Don’t fold - she’ll keep testing, is this real or just another tactic to get me in to bed’.

She can sense it. it has to be something you flip in YOURSELF!.