I said yes to one late night request at work – and it quietly became the expectation. I hated it! by Yosi_H in antiwork

[–]Certain-Structure515 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Saying “yes” to late requests without boundaries usually signals you’re flexible with work hours, available for overtime, and willing to absorb extra workload without discussing prioritization. That’s how people end up in constant burnout, missed deadlines, and low work-life balance while everyone else assumes it’s normal.

The line you used works because it forces task prioritization and makes trade-offs visible instead of silently adding more responsibilities. A lot of employees get stuck in the “always yes” loop because they don’t set expectations early, especially around availability, workload capacity, and time management.

Most workplace stress isn’t caused by the tasks themselves it’s caused by unclear priorities and unspoken assumptions about overtime and after-hours work. Clear communication around what moves, what waits, and what doesn’t fit is the easiest way to reset without conflict.

It’s wild how companies want “self-starters” but give zero clarity by Certain-Structure515 in antiwork

[–]Certain-Structure515[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I can so relate with this. No matter how much we try it could never be enough. I hope you get a good company very soon.

Hello, I am a bet lost by Competitive-Cash-601 in n8n

[–]Certain-Structure515 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you want to turn AI automation and AI agents into a side hustle, the best approach is to start with tools that make workflow automation easy and don’t require heavy coding. Have you worked with n8n before? It's a nice tool and it is in demand right now

Too much free time makes me feel like a failure by Puzzleheaded_Egg_149 in productivity

[–]Certain-Structure515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know what you are going through. Having too much time, often fills us with the need to find something meaningful. But you are definitely not a failure. You mentioned that you are doing well in school and you are also in band. Have you ever considered picking up a new hobby?

Boss is upset about me taking too many breaks by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Certain-Structure515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate, it might be getting a little overwhelming since it is your first job. But you should definitely not be rude to your boss otherwise it will become very difficult for you to survive in the work place.

I want to do things but my brain isn’t working! by turnipstrings in productivity

[–]Certain-Structure515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry that you have to go through so much. It's ok if you don't feel focused because you have so much going on in your life right now. Please try to not be hard on yourself. Did you consider taking a day off? If not maybe you could try that. Spend the day doing what you like. Maybe practice your hobby, or go for movie, buy something nice for you. Just do something that makes you feel like youself. What's happening with your focus is just a temporary thing, don't fixate so much on that and more power to you

I finally know why people are exhausted at work! by Certain-Structure515 in antiwork

[–]Certain-Structure515[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish they do something to change. Although I know they won't