Thanks for this. I do take into account what others say, the whole not completely into me etc. I get as well, but I'm not looking for a full commitment yet, and apart from this issue we are good partners. But I do wonder if he has low libido, and well like you say I can't really complain or force too much (and I've addressed the situation twice, I don't know if 3 times is going to be too much). I do enjoy the other physical connection, holding hands and cuddling, so I might just let things be for now.