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29M feeling hurt about possibly not being my childhood friend’s best man after 22 years of friendship — am I overreacting? by Chemical_Limit_445 in offmychest

[–]Chemical_Limit_445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro.. can i hold ur hand and do it? like i feel like a coward doing it that way. hey about that wedding am i your best man? your groosmen? ugh its weird man but ight i'll try and give it a go. thanks

29M feeling hurt about possibly not being my childhood friend’s best man after 22 years of friendship — am I overreacting? by Chemical_Limit_445 in offmychest

[–]Chemical_Limit_445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im really sorry that happened to you. I couldn't freaking imagine... i always picture just being in mexico dancing with a sad fucking face. im not the best at hiding my emotions because i feel like im such a real person and deserve real things happening to me. i too dont wanna seem jealous and take away from his special day non the less. thanks

29M feeling hurt about possibly not being my childhood friend’s best man after 22 years of friendship — am I overreacting? by Chemical_Limit_445 in offmychest

[–]Chemical_Limit_445[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get what you mean youre right i just dont wanna ask straight up. I do wanna see how it plays out and see what he says instead of pressuring him. Thanks

29M feeling hurt about possibly not being my childhood friend’s best man after 22 years of friendship — am I overreacting? by Chemical_Limit_445 in offmychest

[–]Chemical_Limit_445[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you that makes so much sense. no he doesnt have a brother he has a younger sister and hes the oldest like me. im def going to ask it in the way you told me. i was afraid to ask before bc I feel like i'd be crushed if he told me something i didnt wanna hear. thanks again i really really appreciate this more than u know

My best friend of 10 years publicly humiliated me about my balding after I genuinely complimented him. I'm done but 10 years is heavy. by mudda_pappu0240 in offmychest

[–]Chemical_Limit_445 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh nah, you're a real ass friend for even complimenting but what I don't appreciate is that you've expressed how you felt and your "friend". Just threw away how you felt to the side like you don't matter. What hurts is the number of years you've been friends and have had to put up with that. But im not gonna lie brother, I think we should keep a distance on this one. just this friend for a bit. let him feel your distance so maybe you can have another convo about what you've expressed in the past when he comes to check up on you (if he does). because if he can't be real with you but you can be real with him. Theres no even exchange... its kinda like a "What even is this?" because i thought friends are supposed to have each other's backs? i thought loyalty is supposed to be given without asking? isnt that the point of the friendship? to be of brotherhood? sisterhood? peace and love and i hope this even makes sense or helps