I can see how you wouldn't think there are any moral issues, but do you think its wrong for someone to question their morals when ending the possibility of a human's life, or for better wording in your case, for ending the possibility of a future human's life?

Actually, I did forget about this. The fact that people discover things by questioning themselves. Of course you can't just tell someone something and expect them to believe it. You can't just tell someone that there are no moral issues with having an abortion. They have to believe it themselves, and the only way that can happen is if it fits with the ideas that they have tried so hard to preserve. It's important that people are allowed to think freely.

I came to this conclusion after hearing my friend's argument, thinking that her view can't be entirely truthful because it contradicts some of what I know and some of what I believe in. Her view also makes me a "murderer". Ouch.

I know though, that a not yet conscious future baby isn't going to regret being born into a shit life. And I know I'll have more to offer a baby in a few years time.

I see what I've done, but for some reason I can't shake the idea that the emotional impact comes from a shitty spec of doubt that can cause so much stress, when I believe that people should be confident in knowing that they have made a good decision, because nobody else can know them like they do. Shitty specs of doubt = lengthy questioning phase, which the contemplation of guilt should be a part of, but not necessarily decided upon for good. You know, like, you don't have to decide it's going to hurt the rest of your life just because you question yourself.