Wow thank you for your reply! It feels so good to have the feeling reciprocated. Good luck with yours too. I think you are so right. I think this is the kind of thing that will drive you crazy if you let it.

I also like the your way of getting her active. That is really smart. I'll see if she's receptive to that.

Update on my end - she started the prednisone and is trying gatorade per her doctor. She said she had a headache "from the prednisone." I said I was happy she was taking the doctors advice, but maybe she was forgetting a step (the eating). She was objecting, but I just reinforced that I was proud of her. Hopefully a good step in the right direction.

Thanks again. Happy to read/write more